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Lately I have been having recurring sex dreams about my bestie.Some years back i had feels for her bit i was over it anyway,trust me, and now all of sudden, i m having these dreams every night now. And its kinda of bothering me.I dont even think about her anytime..and its a platonic relation between us foe some year now..

Please help...with this..coz i dont wanna ruin our relation.

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London432

Talk to her my friend tell her how you feel get it off your mind. Enjoy life my friend be happy

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

Ofcourse i did, she did take it positively, we had talk n had fun of it; It felt better, but after a week it started everyday, n now its recurring🤐..so now what do i do now?

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

Do you have feelings for her

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

It was sometime in the past but, not now i guess..but i love being around her n our talks are so long that a day is spent unsatisfied...but i dont think i m sexually attracted to her

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

Do you know how she feels about you mate?

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

It feels like i m friendzoned...but she loves being around me talking too.

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

How do you know she has friend zoned you. She may just be dropping hints wanting you to step up and say the words. Sounds like you both have your eyes on each other. Listen mate make her happy be there for her and when the time is right if you really feel some type of connection let her know and be honest with her. Because I’m sure she would rather you be honest with her then hide it away and if it’s just gonna be close Friends only then that’s fine just be there for her and she will be there for you. If you truly love her don’t let her go

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

Thank you

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

No worries just be happy and enjoy life. Keep her smiling and she will keep you smiling

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

But i m still at the thing, about the sex dreams..am in love or something with her?..or is it some message about it...or am i sexually attracted..she is pretty n fine by body, yet i never looked her that way😶 before

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

Sorry mate I don’t particularly know how you are thinking about her. Have you ever fell in love before or could this be your first time?

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

Ya i had feels for but she was with some other guy then..n i came over n went to another girl..now we both are single

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

I get you mate. You never loose feelings for someone you truly love. Literally just be honest with her tell her exactly how you feel. And possibly bite the bullet and show her how much she means to you.

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Sam_Lutz_21_14 in reply to London432

Alright...i shall face it.....thank u..u fostered me some way..which has taken an unexpected path..thank u though

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London432 in reply to Sam_Lutz_21_14

No worries. It’s down to you mate to make the right choice not me.

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Jay73buster

Your in to her mate don't mess about life's to short go for it.

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Sam_Lutz_21_14

Ok i said my feelings to her and she really responded well, but she dont think of me that. Actually, she said, she loves being with me but cant go it that way. She didnot have words to say it further, but i got it she doesnot have the thing that i had for her. May be i m in wrong bussiness.

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jeffersonsam99

I think you are watching some fantasy movies related to sexual thing. So better to avoid watching that type of movie. If you are not watching like that type of movie just calm down your mind and take some break from your daily life. I hope this will helps to you.

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