Sex accident/Erection problem - Men's Health Forum

Men's Health Forum

36,003 members4,641 posts

Sex accident/Erection problem

AndrewLincoln profile image
6 Replies

Hi. I am new here, and writing this post in hopes that someone can help me with my problem. I am 18 years old. I have a girlfriend and obviously we have regular sex, sometimes multiple times a day, and I've never ever had any issues, I could easily get an erection (even when I didnt want it) and keeping it for a long time wasn't a problem. That was until 2 days ago we tried a new position (I was laying face up, she was on top of me, face up too) and it was fine until one of the "strokes" where I missed her vagina and hit the side of it. It hurt for a second and I felt like a "lightning" feeling going through my penis, but we continued and I didn't make anything of it. But now, two days later, I find myself unable to get an erection. I feel no pain or anything whatsoever and my penis doesn't look any different, maybe just a little bit smaller when flaccid. Im unable to get a full 100% erection, something that was very easy for me before, and instead it gets to 70% maybe maximum and that's when I can get it hard at all. When I hold it, it feels very different, almost as if it has a different shape. It also feels very limp and empty, even when hard. If I let it go for 2 seconds it will instantly become flaccid before my very eyes. I used to be able to get an erection whenever I wanted just by thinking about it two days ago, and now I find myself struggling to even get a semi.

Any help would be much appreciated as I am quite scared about this,

Thank you.

Written by
AndrewLincoln profile image
AndrewLincoln
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
6 Replies
Goldfish_ profile image
Goldfish_

If you didn't lose your erection it seems unlikely you have had a penile fracture, but that would be the main concern.

Checkout the symptoms and if you feel appropriate it would mean a trip to hospital a&e

However it could all be psychological

See because the other day your erected penis had a trauma due to hitting outside , could be there is a nerve injury , even if it is not an injury, psychologically in your mind you are afraid of doing sex , so unable to get an erection . Basically you lost interest because of that hit and trauma, I feel temporarily . Usually over the time it will be all right . Give some days rest . Spend time with your girl friend without sex . By her company you will be out of trauma . Spend more time for foreplay . At this age nothing is expected to happen . If it doesn't come back you have consult a doctor who may perhaps give you a vitamin and at most mild aphrodisiac ( which I think is remote ). Relax .....you will be able to .

nickItaly profile image
nickItaly

I agree with Goldfish. It could be all psychological, but go for a check to a consultant. Nicola

Sounds more like you may have damaged / bruised the blood retaining vessels that keeps and gets you hard. If it were me, I would abstain from sex and masturbation for 3-4 days and see how things look then. If no better then maybe a word with the GP.

Philip profile image
Philip

probably just briused I'm sure you'll get a kiss better,carries on you would be wise going to see your doctor if I Male then he might get jealous ,female, probably you will be embarrassed.

Best of luck, l.ol.

ps if your GF is in need then ill give you a referral,on a serious note try get to your GP or if you can find an A and E, if theres one open lol

That lightning might have been due to some injury on the nerves and the memory still remains. Take some neural vitamin and give some days rest. It will be erected. Increase foreplay

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

8th Day Flaccid Erection after circumcision

Hi I had phimosis and I'm on 8th day of my circumcision, I'm 28 years of age. My surgeon has done...
darshu790 profile image

Curved erection after circumcision

Hi guys. I got circumcised 20 days ago due to phimosis as I was unable to retract the foreskin even...
Brodius77 profile image

can loss of erection angle through age be corrected?

I am almost 40 and I see the difference compared to when I was just 18 and my erection was so hard...
Brennick98 profile image

Problem maintaining erection

I am a 51 year old non smoking, quit 4 years ago, male. I have no underlying medical conditions,...
rizla72 profile image

Erection problem

Help For two months I have a problem of losing erection during foreplay before penetration ? 36...

Moderation team

See all
Norwich1 profile image
Norwich1Moderator
jimpollard profile image
jimpollardPartner
mpntod profile image
mpntodPartner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.