My name is Aumi, and i'm new here. I'm 25 years old.
I had sex with my girlfriend last week and she enjoyed sex with me. Also i have done plenty of intercourse before that and every time when i do intercourse continuously for around 2-3 hours, inserting my penis into her genital - we both are able to enjoy a lot but sperm not release even once during the sex. My penis was strong and hard from starting to end of sex. and yes, i do use protection every time.
However, when i do masturbation i am able to release sperm in just five minutes but why it is not happening during the intercourse session? could you please advice me on that.
Its making me get scared that I may not be able to have children and it could be so embarrassing these days.
Any help would be much appreciated.
Thanks very much
Aumi
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My guess would be if you can ejaculate with masturbation then you have no medical problem here.
It is possible and I have experienced this myself, that you reach the point of climax and hold back to continue with intercourse. I cannot say for sure but think that this may release the sperm more slowly, ie, it leaks out so no 'spurt'.
Maybe try a 'quickie' with your willing girlfriend.
If you still have problems see a Doc'. In rare cases semen can go back.
Psychological factors and reduced sensation with using sheath are likely factors. Certainly this has nothing to do with future fertility. Worry/ anxiety will make it worse
hey man, i understand ye worry cos its not just bout kids, its about ye manhood. would i be right in thinking that u dont actually climax wen u have intercourse or, do u climax but release no sperm?
i'm considering to give up on masturbation for a while and give it a try (intercourse) once again after a month or later. hope that would sort out the problem..
One fine day, it was by chance i tried "women on top - The 'cowgirl' position" and it worked. and yes, I did sex without using any protection "condom" and release the sperm inside her vagina.
I noticed that this is the best position for me to get satisfied. Now i'm gonna use that position every time in the end of the sexual session. so that i and my partner both enjoy the intimacy.
Pro: Chances of ejaculation are pretty high in the early morning, when you wake up.!
It's wonderful that you've sorted out your problem and discovered why you hitherto weren't climaxing during intercourse with your girlfriend. In my opinion, 'cowgirl' is a wonderful position, so both of you, enjoy it to the max!! But, unless you want her to get pregnant, you surely need to be thinking of some other form of contraception? There is a female condom which is a great way for both the man and the woman to stay safe and enjoy sex, and the benefit for you would be that the man doesn't have anything on his penis (which as you know from using the male condom, reduces sensitivity and pleasure). Your girlfriend will still be able to enjoy the intimacy and you will still be able to ejaculate inside her vagina and get the sexual satisfaction you crave. Give it a try!!
May I suggest you start another thread and let us know some details about yourself, such as your age, your problem and what you've done so far to try to overcome it? Do bear in mind that this thread is now a year old and maybe not many people will see or read your question.
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