I got circumcised around 6 months ago, and since being circumcised I can only climax from masturbation.
When I am having intercourse, I feel nothing, I don't even get stimulated the slightest, I've tried different positions and nothing helps.
I obviously could masturbate and when I am about to finish, insert my penis and ejaculate but I want that feeling of having sex and being able to ejaculate whilst inside.
I no longer masturbate and have gone cold turkey for about 2 months, and I haven't had any urges at all to masturbate, I please and make my partner climax and then I just roll over and go to sleep, I have no urge to want to climax.
However I can maintain erections, I'm always up and ready to have sex but I just feel like I am disconnected from my penis.
What do I do guys? Thanks
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Apparently psychological. You have a guilt for not having the foreskin.
Probably you need to wait for may be a fortnight , abstain from sex. Can try oral sex . May be you need to spend more time in foreplay .You may take light drugs to activate your Libido. May discuss with a psychiatrist .
I also occasionally have difficulty in ejaculating from intercourse alone since my surgery but it is not that often. I just enjoy the moment and expect next time to be better. Sometimes I will finish off with masturbating and usually have my wife 'help'.
Taking time off from masturbating may help, but above all do not give up on sex. Carry on trying different positions, places, dressing up. Keep it interesting and exciting.
Good luck
I only have difficulty in ejaculating during intercourse alone when i have masturbated, let say, day before. Since my surgery (13months ago) I am less sensitive at the glance of my penis. I now enjoy the more timeb I need to have my climax.
Sometimes, when I have masturbated myself short before l wil finish off with masturbating and sometimes have my wife 'help'.
Staying a litte away from masturbating may help you also, but do not give up on sex! You maybe need some more time to become used to the new situation.
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