Did anyone see this movie with Robert DeNiro and Sylvester Stallone? Great movie. Anyway, I found myself dealing with grudges and the like on New Year's Eve. I knew something was wrong because I became physically ill, yuck. Why? Because I was holding un-forgiveness and harboring ill-will. It's a challenge to forgive those who do you wrong. When you don't the only one who suffers is you. Holding grudges is not the business. Plus it takes too much energy. It's better to heal rather than be bitter. Lesson learned back to r&r.