Let me say first that i am not in any clique,nor am i biased in any way but i will not stand by for a moment longer and watch Moffy and V-G's character be dragged through the mud!!!! I woke up this morning to find private messages galore in my inbox and ok, i admit, i read them with interest.
I too found that libs and pp were comapassionate, caring and understanding and i will always be thankful for their advice and i will miss them terribly...BUT.....i was no way in the arguement that has occured, who said what to who and who passed what onto who, nor do i want to be...so why drag me into this, and everyone else???? Bullying and trolls is the answer!
Whatever has gone on between the admin and volunteers is just that...between them and there has been a couple of *people" trying to cause a major upset in the forum. If you truly believe that Moffy and V-G are guilty then its simple....leave.....but just remember this....when the poop hits the fan and everyone is arguing, where will these ringleaders be? Happy, thats what and do you really think they will give 2 hoots about the members that have supported them...nope, is the answer i think you will find!
Some of you have posted on the private message that you find the silly blogs offensive and insulting to your intelligence...well use your intelligence if you feel that way...dont blooming read them!!!!! The titles give us a clue that they are nonsense, so dont click on them....simple!
Whenever you have needed advice then both Moffy and V-G hsve ben there and on these private messages a few of you have statedf that you detest bullies...well what is this if it isnt bullying...except the fact that it is all said behind their backs, not to their faces as it were.
I found this site by pure accident and i thank god that i did, i have made many virtual friends, have had my worries reassured and i would like to think i have paid back by reassuring others when i am forunate to have the knoweldge about certain things that they dont, but isnt that the idea ohind a forum? Everyone helping each other?
As heuman beings we are abvioulsy not programmed to agree with one another but surely this behaaviour is only destructive? I wonder how many of us have felt more pain than what we consider "normal" today because of the added stress of this mob handed behaviour.....i know i have....andi wonder...will the trolls be there to answer your cries for help.....no, i didnt think so.......but i bet certain members of the voluteer and admin team will be....think twice before jumping on the bandwaggon.....