Loyalty

It is quite obvious where some peoples loyalties lie! Very insensitive towards many who are very upset! Not so much as an apology to the wretched treatment of Libs and Pinkpig,and all of us whom are not included in your little tryst's each day! Another thing,where is the love???? I too am leaving this forum it is becoming detestable and leaves a sour taste in ones mouth!

[Hidden]

Every day the silly blog contains a request for more people to join in .. The very people you mention were very active in the silly blog and even suggested many of the threads themselves I am sorry you feel this way and hope you find a forum where you can be happy

Take care

VG x

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I'm afraid i fo not agree with you! You have to have the last word don't you VG, you are not right all the time as is the case for all human beings!

[ladymoth]

Seconded. I'm sure that when people have had time to think, and to get over this storm in a teacup, that they will settle down and be happy somewhere - if not here!

Best Wishes

Moffyx

[Hidden in reply to ladymoth]

Storm in a teacup,how dare you belittle me and others,you are not very nice i would appreciate it if you didn't comment on my blog! I am appalled by your behaviour this matter was kept private until you and your friend made it public trying to deflect any responsibility towards yourself! Subsequent threads were deleted of which showed your true colours!

[Ginsing]

This is all ridiculous every one is always made most wellcome! xgins

[Hidden in reply to Ginsing]

That is NOT so!!! End of!!!

[Hidden in reply to Ginsing]

That is NOT so!!! End of!!!

[Hidden]

I would request that i am now left alone to try and enjoy what today is my birthday! Best wishes to sensitive and caring souls xxx

[Saskia in reply to Hidden]

BLESS YOU, DELLA,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

IF YOU LEAVE COULD YOU PM ME WITH AN EMAIL ADDRESS OR FB SO WE CAN KEEP IN TOUCH?

SORRY TYPING WITH 1 hand as I HAVE BROKEN MY LEFT WRIST.

I HOPE YOU CAN ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY. DO YOU HAVE SOME NICE CHOCOLATE OR CAKE?!!!!!

GENTLE ( SLIGHTLY LOPSIDED! ) HUGS AND LOVE, SASKIA. XXX

[Hidden in reply to Saskia]

Thankyou Saskia i will definitely be in touch and keep in touch,i am truly blessed to know such lovely people,i have chocolates in abundance!!! Have a lovely day lots of love Della xxx

[Saskia in reply to Hidden]

SO GLAD YOU HAVE LOTS OF CHOCCIE. ENJOY!

HAVE A LUVVERLY BIRTHDAY.....HUGS

SASKIA XX

[Hidden in reply to Saskia]

xxx

[chilli50]

Did I miss something?

Chilli xx

[chilli50]

Happy birthday Della74. I hope your day is an enjoyable one!

Love and gentle huggles

Chilli xxx

[Hidden in reply to chilli50]

Thankyou Chilli! Have a lovely day also. xxx

[Hidden]

Happy birthday

VG x

[Hidden]

Happy birthday hun each is entitled to their own perspective of a situation dont allow your self to be swayed by only one side if a situation I dont argee or disagree with you I joined here for help and advice and I can only evaluate it on how I pesonally have been treated my father who was a wise man taught me

NO ONE PERSON HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANOTHER BUT IF YOU MUST HAVE AN OPINION OF THEM

MAKE SURE IT IS NOT ON THEIR CREED COLOUR OR HOW THEYTREAT OTHERS MAKE IT SOLEY ON HOW THEY HAVE INTERACTED WITH YOU PERSONALLY

One cannot make allegations and or threats unless both sides of a coin

Are available to be examined

Love me or dispise me it matters not because I think you are great and entitled to make your decisions

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou Fadedblossom,such s wise and sensible lady,warm and sensitive,have a lovely day love Della xxx

[Hidden]

Well they are not silly blogs are they when so many people agree

With them, we are not children who need to be encouraged to join

In most people in this forum feel the same, we all know what has

Gone on and our views on this, we can't all be wrong I thought that

It was the people in the forum that made the forum.

If that is the case some one needs to say sorry to Libby and ask

Her back because she does not deserve this.

None of us need all of this it just makes us all more stressed

we can't get on with every one who are volunteers, or admin

That's why it's nice to have a few people doing the job

I myself will all ways be grateful to Libby who helped me no

End when I first joined this forum, she gave me lots of information and support

I did not know the other lady so no comment.

I can't believe that she has been made to feel that she has to leave well I

Can as it's happened before.

Happy birthday Della have a good one this will blow over like it did

Before unfortunately people will leave the forum, as they believe

The wrong people have left.

I don't think I will post on here again, I just hope that things will go

Back to what they were.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Oh Vivien,thankyou Love and hugs i too miss Libby and will forever be i her debt for all her help,advice and support she was truly a treasure xxx

[Dixiesdaughter]

Happy birthday della plz try to take time out from this situation as I know it has been upsetting for a lot of people. Life is too short to allow stress and anger to colour your day.

Whatever the rights and wrongs of this situation it is time for cool heads and for people to reflect on their own actions and see where they may have been quick to judge or condemn take offence where none was intended or used their tongue harshly or unwisely. I hope all the main players in this situation can find some resolution and those of us on the side lines who have an opinion can express it in a way that doesnt inflame the situationbut allows our concerns to be addressed. The atmosphere after these upsets are very draining and off putting for all members and that is so sad as this wee site has been an oasis for every one of us at some point in our fight with fibro. Whether we came on here for advice, info, support, direction, company, distraction, hope or inspiration this wee site generally came up trumps I for one hope that normal service can be resumed without diminishing the need for those involved in this situation to iron out their differences and take note of someof the points made by members with no agenda or axe to grind.

Della I truly hope you and others who have spoken about leaving dont!! this site has lost too many lovely people and you would be missed we need diversity and should be able to embrace different view points even if we dont necessarily agree with them.

Heres hoping this is resolved soon

Dixie x

[Hidden in reply to Dixiesdaughter]

Thankyou Dixie very poignant and genuine xxx

[jom277]

Hope you have a good birthday.

Jo

[Hidden in reply to jom277]

Thanks x

[tettridge]

Hi

Sorry for being late but HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY (or at least what is left of it)

Whatever the problems have been (I have no desire to get it all raked up again) Please look at the Birthday wishes you have received and this is what these forums are all about, well wishes and help and advice.

Have a good day

Terry

[Hidden in reply to tettridge]

Thankyou Terry yes you are right its what these forums are about community friendship etc have a lovely day love Della xxx

[Fibrofoggiest]

Happy Birthday Della, I am sending you a bunch of virtual flowers and a big box of choccies, and hope you have a lovely day Foggy x

[Hidden in reply to Fibrofoggiest]

Thankyou Foggy!xxx

[Ginsing]

Happy Birthday Della I love the idea of sending a bunch of virtual flowers so here is one for you Have a good day xgins

[Hidden in reply to Ginsing]

Thankyou gins they smell wonderful! Hee xxx

[Sthandra]

Happy belated birthday Della luv Sithy

[Sthandra]

Happy belated birthday Della luv Sithy