goodbye and good luck and thanks.....

i wish to thank everyone who ive known for a while now and all the newbies too. ive been through alot the past year and a half.and when i joined here i was really happy then the trolls came and started on me,then good mates left,then things started to change.

then a good mate of mine diddle and chris went,now some more new people and butterfly gone now shes a good friend of mine still.

well after getting a message of admin at me and i dunno why..ive had enough and im gone...

this used to be a postive site a happy site.and i dont care if admin ban me how can they when ive left.and sorry admin i wont be coming back nor telling people to come here either...

im not a trouble maker,or stirrer,nor am i racist either,im a kind human being trying to deal with what life throws at me..

im on verge of a breakdown,i have a mate serving in Afghanistan,and im fighting to get my kids back and clear my name...

whilst trying to support others on here...

sorry guys i feel like ive been pushed and im going now....

it was nice whilst it lasted...

ive tried to stay loyal to ones who have gone and ones who have left.but not for admin i wont ...

all the best in the future.big hugs to you all.

sammy xxxx

[Extremelygrumpy]

Umm if the comment from admin was about your comment going from a certain blog EVERYONE who posted on that blog/ question including me got the standard memo from admin saying ... As we have removed a post all your comments on THAT blog have been deleted along with the blog ... It's NOT a reprimand it's an explanation... I replied thanks for telling me .... Not that I would actually notice if some of my posts had disappeared anyway...

Hope that was all it was

VG x

[Hidden in reply to Extremelygrumpy]

it doesnt matter .if that was the case but thanks .ive had enough of people leaving .ive been on this forum for quite some time now .

and seen alot and heard alot.

so this was the last straw.i have other forums to go on and good friends from here also..thanks anyway.x

[irisjoy in reply to Hidden]

see you on there sammy x

[Extremelygrumpy]

Ok bye and good luck

VG xx

[Hidden]

See you in the other place

Viv

[Hidden]

OMG Sammy i am so sorry.. I just want to say that I have been here for about what a couple of weeks so very relatively new and thought I had found a safe haven with so many supportive and knowledgeable people going through the similar challenges and yet in that short time all I have seen is people misconscrue things, blow things up and target members who are just speaking their truths.and then they feel they have to leave... where is the humanity in this.? So sad... I do not have a personal friend here, no one invited me.. i googled fibro and found this site and its the first site I have joined to try and help others and for support myself... even if its a funny post a virtual hug or smile or knowledge about other aspects to assist in healing. It was nice to know that I wasnt alone in the suffering that this condition brings. My heart bleeds about the whole situation here.. arent we all valued ? We must remember that we are all poorly and dealing with life and this site the best way we can considering our ailments... I am sorry to see you all go and I too will be joining the other site.. as it doesnt say in any guidelines that I cant.. but I would like to stay here as I am learning so much more about the condition and it helps to put things in perspective even through the fog. We all have so much that we can offer each other... where has this been lost?

A saying brings to mind...

"Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he’ll be a mile away - and barefoot."

Take care all of you and Sammy.. hold up your head, smile,and enjoy your new space.

Hugs x

[Hidden]

I got the same message Sammy, everyone who posted on that blog did, so it really wasn't personal. It is sad that you have decided to leave and we will miss you. Good luck with everything and especially your health and fight for the children. Try to stay strong. Jane x

[Hidden]

Good Luck and take care xx

[julieevh]

Sorry you feel you want to leave Sammy, but you have to do what you feel you have to do.

Best wishes for the future

((((( gentle hugs )))))

Julie xx

[theshadow]

Sorry........... am I the only one who doesn't understand all this?

Live & let live is my philosophy!

Gentle hugs to all who would like one!