down in the dumos

[aimeesmum]

just split from b friend of 17yrs

he has severe depression and he had a drink on pills and smashed a few things up

i have child 12

im lonely

feel like CFS wil get worse as im just getting better but still have alot of joint pain

starting to loose all weight ive just put on

gonna look like a skeleton

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hi

sounds like life is hard right now ..

A little bit of advice would be to go see your doctor have a check up always good to look after you and check out medication etc

maybe think about some counselling . you should get free counselling .. if not there are charitys in most areas that offer discounted ot free counselling ..

I hope you will get lots of support on this sight there are some fab people on here .. who are understanding and amazing ..

gentle dyslexic hugs

[aimeesmum]

thanks .....

its just hard im very anxoius now

my daughters tells me last night he loves me which makes everything complicated

he sholdnt drink on medication but we went out to chill out

ive been gp who gave me tablets for sore tummy dure to stress

[julieevh]

Sorry that you are going through such a trauma at the moment; relationship breakups are awful no matter what the circumstances. Expect to grieve for the lost relationship, it will take a while but time is a great healer. (I'm twice divorced once after 25 years, second time after 15 months).

We are here for you - you are not alone. Quite a few of us have CFS (me included) as well as the dreaded Fibro.

((((( gentle hugs )))))

Julie xx

[aimeesmum in reply to julieevh]

thanks i was on the up from CFS putting the weight back on positive comments from ppl

making an effort with what i wear etc

my daughter tells me he loves me last nite but i dont make effort in relationship

thats the CFS not me

[aimeesmum]

he shamshed the house up not me

great parents one with cfs and other with severe depression

[Dixiesdaughter]

Hi aimeesmum.

Gosh things are a mess for you at the minute aren't they! A lot of us on here have been through similar periods in life and can emphathise with you. Your head must be all over the place at the minute!! You will be probably be feeling a huge range of mixed emotions; anger at his actions, scared by the prospect of being alone, guilty at the impact events may have on your daughter and undecided about the way forward.

Please sit down take a breath and weigh up all your options. Do not be swayed by people around you who offer well meaning advice. The decision in regards to your future is yours alone to make so dont be rushed or influenced by anyone else.

Be gentle with yourself do things to raise your spirits; eat well, take warm baths, take gentle walks, listen to uplifting music, write down your feelings. I wish you the best of luck whatever you decide and feel free to msg me any time if you wanna talk

)))))hugs((((((

Dixie xx

[aimeesmum]

hi there thanks for that excelent advise

im normally quite strong minded but this has tipped me over the edge

i just seem to be shaking and anxoius

im waiting water ti heat for a bath

its messing my head up as he tells me he loves me

im very angry with him

i just hope ppl domt see thru me tom at work as they know nothing