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Hi all, having a crap day lots of pain yesterday, n hubby went out all day!! Helped out of bed this morning and Ive had to take my extra pain killers so Im bit spacey., but pain is not quite as bad.

Hubby has dissapeared again, Yes I'm feeling very sorry for myself today

soft hugs to all

xxxx

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its ok to have a i feel sorry for myself day i am sure you will get lots of supportive messages .. be kind to your self and hopefully tomorrow will be better

Gentle dyslexic hugs

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can i ask if hubby supports you at all.does he understand.?you shouldnt be on your own on days like you are today.

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No Sammy I dont think he does, Paul had a stroke 6yrs ago and I stood by him through it all.

Its only about a month ago he said he wanted to be on his own and he didnt feel the same about me,

I think the recent stress has played a big part,

Thanks xx

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Oh Susan, you are under so much strain at the moment. It's at times like these that we really need our nearest and dearest to pull everything out of the bag to support us and to understand. Especially in your case as you helped your hubby when he had a stroke, I would expect him to stand by you now with all you have to contend with.

It's no wonder you feel the way you do. I hope this doesn't come across too harshly but I personally think you are at the stage where you need to sit down and talk all this through so you know where you stand, whether you can count on his support, what lies ahead etc. At times like these we avoid this confrontational chat, but you need to know what's happening. He certainly shouldn't have left you alone today.

I hope you manage to have a better day tomorrow, if you need a shoulder to lean on you can count on us all here. Take care, bless you and here's a hug.

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Thank you for the big hug LibertyZ,

Sometimes thats all I (we) need,.

I dont think I will ever be able to count on his support when I need it, sadly he has always been a bit of a controller.

Now I dont have my driving lisence because of my epilepsy and now fibro kicking in as much, well!!!!!!! he knows I have very little independence left.

Im in bed today, he made me a sandwich before going to the allottment.

Once again thanks for the HUG xx

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Also had a really bad pain day in fact it keeps happening and my legs hurt so much that climbing the stairs to bed isnt worth the effort.