How do people on here manage to maintain their intimate relationship with partner when their in pain or when fibro impacts on their eh hmmm mobility im divorced oh god numerous yrs now and choose not to date again untill all my kids were grown up. Now they are and im finally in a new relationship. Obviously not looking to swing from chandaliers at my age (a young 43) and in my condition (sore,sore,sore) I reckon that ship mite have sailed lol but would appriciate some advice or tips on how others keep da romance alive
P.s. I have tried a few of these listed below with varying results
Couples massage- ouch ouch ouch!!!
Date nights- have had to cancle so many due to tiredness or pain
Cuddle on sofa to watch girly romantic film - either I cudnt get comfortable or he fell asleep from sheer boredom lol
Sexi undies - flippin nightmare to take off seductively when hands are clawed or throbbin with pain (lmao)
On verge of giving up (well sometimes so all advice welcomed