So I've been having a really, really tough few weeks, - well months actually - but last few weeks I've been mostly stuck in bed unable to perform simple cleaning tasks or even bend down and put the washing in the machine without experiencing dizziness and panting heavily when I stand up again and I haven't gotten out the house for at least 2 weeks, which is bad even for me. Wednesday I turned over in the bed and was hit with massive pain and I just cried from the fatigue as it was 10:30 and I couldn't move. My house is a tip. The garden is crying out for some help, I'm the embarrassing neighbour with the neglected overgrown weed patch.
And nothing is going to get done. Although I will say today is ironically a better day energy wise.
I have several other co-morbid health conditions including severe allergies (urticaria and angioedema) that keep going on and on. And when I'm tired and try to push through, the symptoms surge with a vengeance. Que swelling face.
Today like an idiot who doesn't know better, I ring the GP just to talk through whether I can adjust my meds, and how to add iron (since I'm reacting to that) he admits he doesn't understand Fibromyalgia (but to be fair was ernest in listening. Which I admit doesn't always happen).
I didn't think properly about what I was phoning for, I think the overwhelming exhaustion meant I was confused. Anyway I get offered talking therapy and dreaded graded exercise!!!
And I couldn't say no, as I was asking for help. I really now don't know what to do. If I don't go I will be labeled as uncooperative. But I am terrified of the consequences of trying graded exercise.
In the past I have tried keeping a very basic exercise routine, walking, really basic pilates...I've paid for subscriptions, and during good weeks I'm stupid and try and do exercise vids on YT. I always pay for it. Always. I can never keep it going, even if I manage it.
I suppose getting out everyday would be good however...but I just am in a hugely inflamed and fatigued state.
What to do? Has anyone here benefited from GE? I have visions of being made to run on a treadmill.
Graded exercise can be very beneficial if done correctly and that you have a starting point that is low enough that it will not trigger a flare or significantly increase pain levels. You may experience some additional pain, especially if you are using muscles that are not used to the activity
A few years back I trained over a period of 9 months to do a 5k for the charity. I started with doing 2 minutes on the treadmill, and gradually increased on a weekly basis (at the starting point I could walk about 5 minutes, but I started at a lower level than what I could do)
The aim is to have an activity level you can achieve on all days, and try to avoid doing more on a better day
Thank you so much for replying!
So it your case, you find it has worked, that makes me slightly less apprehensive, as I know G.E.T is controversial and was concerned will make me worse.
GET is more controversial for people with ME as it can make their symptoms worse
Exercise /activity has been found to be one of the most beneficial things you can do for Fibro (although I appreciate that when you are in pain sometimes the last thing you even want to think about is exercise)
Thanks, again! It's the fatigue element that worries me. At one time I could get about, but with pain. I would say pain and unconfortable peripheral sensations were the dominant symptom. I still attended university and was able to do housework with effort, travel etc. As time went on, the more I did, then the tiredness gave way to more and longer laster lasting episodes of extreme fatigue. Fatigue is now my dominant symptom and if I push through the fatigue I get the pain. Some days I just get pain ..I push through that I get the fatigue!
Before this latest onset I had about 2 months of feeling almost normal although having big flare of allergy. And that was pretty shocking and I was overjoyed, I cooked, baked had the house sparkling. Then I relapsed. And then just before December I caught flu and I have not been anywhere near managing.
When I've explained this again and again to Drs I am not understood. I just get told it's fibro and my doctor has refused me an M.E consult. Saying chronic fatigue is part of everything so my concern is explaining that, and being able to stop when I need to.
I would dearly love to be able to get put more so I have competing feelings. I will just have to try it and see I guess!