Hi all,
Hope everyone's ok.
I'm about to be a right whinge bag...
Physio appointment;
I travelled there by ferry and car, I drove myself although I'd had a terrible migraine the night before. Anyway. I knew I was in a mood when an elderly man, making conversation asked me 'what's wrong with you?' I replied 'what's wrong with you?'
Cheeky, I know, but I said to him I was kidding
because he realised himself it was a gaff. Poor wee man didn't mean it.
So, in for appointment, had a bit of a consultation, he had a wobble about at my sore arm, he thinks it's a pinched nerve, showed me how to do some exercises, they were a bit uncomfortable and I started crying, out of the blue. I know I'm stressed out of my head but I think it's because I had to acknowledge how hard things have been and that the stress is taking its toll. I took his recommendation to see GP today. Gp gave me pregabalin to try for pain and been referred to community psychiatric nurse for counselling. I'm not depressed just stressed. I've previously been very depressed and hospitalised because of it for three inpatient stays, from 2007 I was just was very unwell, the last time being 2011. Thankfully I've managed to stay proactive in safeguarding my mental wellbeing through knowing my limits...I'm very aware, as is my husband, of the difference for me between stress and depression but since one can lead to another, I need to nip it in the bud.
It takes its toll a bit though, and trying to keep my ten year old ok is hard going to be honest. And having a teenager too and my husband working 7 days on, 7 days off (long shifts) is hard, the days he's off are easier but the 7 he's working are loooong days.
Right I'm done moaning on now.
In the words of Coldplay (when they were still cool):
'Nobody said it was easy,
No one ever said it would be this hard'
Still, tomorrow's another day.
This is what goes through my head for a second when someone asks how I am, but just go 'yeah, I'm fine'... It's quicker really😃