Hi all. Well, the pain is a little better in as much as the sciatica has subsided a bit, however, across the middle of back is not too good still, however, I don`t like to do it normally, but I am taking stronger pain killers, which I will knock on the head as oon as I can. Thanks once again everyone for your kind thoughts. I do have a husband,who will help, well sort of, but he lives in his cottage a mile away and I live in my bungalow [ you should try it, it works ] Hmmmmmmmm I hear you say. WHY
Well we went to Portugal to live in 1999, and after be ing there for 6yrs I had to come back because of servere health problems, and also my sister was dying, Anyway Malc stayed there, and although I went backwards and forwards, it became too much of chore as I really wasn`t all that well. However I got myself a bungalow and a cat, and 6yrs later [ two and a half years ago ] Malc came back with 2 dogs. Well, there was no way the animals would have lived together, and besides, I am a very independant person, and had realised, that for the first time in my life, I could do what I wanted for me, so, no way was I going to give that up. We have always been sole mates, and been married over 40yrs, but there comes a time when it`s YOUR TIME..He comes round to see me every day [ NO NOT FOR FUNNY BUSINESS ] but you know what men are like, they say they will get you something to eat, and then you spend the next half hour trying to tell them where the pan is, don`t you just love em, Anyway, the thing is, it is certainly a way to live, because he gets to do all the things he wants [ television constantly, which would drive me mad, sitting around doing nothing, reading etc.,] and I work just as hard as ever when I can eg doing my 150 ft garden, playing my keyboard/piano etc., and there is a lot to be said for it, we probably wouldn`t have so many divorces, if people were able to do this especially in older life. SO, there you have it it does give food for thought, doesn`t it? Hope it hasn`t bored you too much. [ WELL, you didn`t have to read it ] only joking.
lots of hugs to all