Good evening ☀️,
Hope everyone is well. Last minute question as usual from me, as my follow up is tomorrow morning 😬. Think I like to ignore it for as long as possible.
Basically I have now had 9 embryo transfers of 10 embryos (one double). I had one early miscarriage March 2021 (pre 7 weeks) and a chemical pregnancy August 2022 (ended up with sepsis and seriously ill a week after transfer)
This cycle I have had 3 embryos sent off for PGT-a testing. One has come back euploid, one no results and one aneuploid. I am getting the no results one re biopsied (obviously this happens to me although it only happens in less than 5% of cases 😵💫)
I had hoped for many more embryos as they told me I had 19 follicles and were preparing me for OHSS and when I had my egg collection they only collected 6 eggs. I still had 5 on day 5 but they said only 3 were good enough to biopsy. I am obviously extremely grateful I got 3 and also the one normal one so far. But I can’t help feeling this has given me no more information. Out of 2 that got results I have a 50/50 scenario. And I can’t help but feel out of 10 previous embryos, some of these must have been euploid. I always feel the problem lies within my own body. I have endometriosis and have had 3 surgeries to try and remove some of this but I have DIE through my bowels etc. my ovaries end up stuck down every time, I now how one tube and my womb is stuck to my bowel.
My question is, has anyone had multiple embryo transfers and gone on to have success because they used prednisone? I’m really anxious about putting my one embryo back in and changing nothing. Which I know full well my clinic will suggest tomorrow. Whenever I ask about steroids or NK cells I get told there’s not enough research or the evidence suggests there’s no link between using these and success. But I read so many stories on here. And hardly ever the number of embryos I’ve had transferred. I’ve basically had every test under the sun. Emma Alice & ERA, thyroid, Karyotype, care unity, blood clotting. And everything comes back normal.
Obviously this is the first time testing my embryos after 2 previous unsuccessful rounds from the collections I had. I feel my clinic (NHS) just do a one size fits all and I’m just super concerned about this going in to this transfer. Any advice or previous experience is really welcome.
sorry this is so long. If you’ve read all the way down thank you! And I can only apologise for how poor I am at responding to people. I have been TTC for 8 years without success. 5 years on ivf, 6 if you include the clomid. I’m 36 and very very worn down by the whole thing and often find myself in intense feelings of overwhelm and often really down by feeling that there is literally never a single person who has been at it as long as me who has gone on to have success. Most end up having to accept the inevitable, that it’s never going to happen for them. Which is nearly where I am at. And it scares me so much. Hence leaving this so last minute. I really do appreciate any help I get and commend every single one of you in this awful situation.
Thank you so much for any response 🫶