Is this normal.....?

[Flowergirlhope]

Hello All,

First time posting - but just thought would put it out there, hoping for some reassurance.

Feeling really anxious, as my test day is tomorrow (28th) I have had FET and gone down the medicated route this time (on Cyclogest pessaries 3x a day and also taking Estradiol 3x a day.

Yesterday and Today i've felt like im going to start my period (but havent), but also had clear discharge - Is this normal or just the meds?? anyone else had this?

Super nervous as lost baby in my last FET at 4 1/2 wks - This is my second try but medicated this time so really hoping, but feeling quite negative about it atm! (think my hormones have really kicked in this time ) I took a test last friday at the end of the day which probably wasnt a good time to do it anyway - but it was negative. I know it was probably most likely too early to test as was only 7 days after transfer & also wasn't my morning urine. But has left me feeling so negative about tomorrow.

This 2WW is not nice!

Anyone who can help about the discharge - be glad to hear pls!

Thanks

x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Flowergirlhope. Oh dear, I fully understand your anxieties. All you can do is to keep busy, take your medication and test with the first urine of the day. Thinking of you. Diane

[Flowergirlhope in reply to DianeArnold]

Bless you thanks Diane xx really praying hard that this one is a success

[Hp07]

Hi Flowergirlhope!

So sorry about your previous loss. Really hoping this works out for you.

My test day is also tomorrow! I've managed not to test yet but I've felt like my period is about to start imminently for the last week with really bad cramps, then started brown spotting when wiping since Monday.

From extensive googling and searching on this forum it seems like nothing means you're out the game until you get the beta blood test on OTD. I'll be doing a home test first thing tomorrow then bloods in the afternoon . I also feel like its not worked for us this time but we can hope🤞

[Flowergirlhope in reply to Hp07]

Thanks so much for your reply! Bless you thanks - will be a true miracle and an amazing blessing if so (after 8 yrs of trying and operations/tests etc etc as i have endo!) so would just be the miracle we have been praying for!

Do hope all goes well with your test tomorrow too xx Are you on meds too?

Ahh - its just so horrible as you dont know if its the period coming or positive symptoms. Just so nervous now since we lost our previous one. I havent had any spotting, but then i'm worried as everyone else seems to! so thats why im worried its not worked this time.

I havent been offered a blood test - did you ask for this?

All the VV best for tomorrow.

xx

[Hp07 in reply to Flowergirlhope]

Awh seems like you've had quite the journey to get to this point 🙏 that really does show true strength, got everything crossed for you for tomorrow 💛🤞

Yes I'm on 400mg cyclogest twice a day. Been trying for 2 years, unexplained infertility. This is my first round and fresh transfer so the process is still quite new to me.

The beta hcg blood test is included in the package with my clinic. They said even if I test negative they still want to do a blood test 🤷‍♀️

I have noticed lots of people have progesterone blood tests which I haven't had 🤔

It's such a confusing time! I'm worried that I'm spotting and you're worried that you're not 😂 just goes to show no matter what we all worry and stress in the 2ww. Everybody is different, there's nothing we can do but hope! 😊🙏

[WillowPark in reply to Hp07]

Hi Hp07 , I'm on 9dp5dt and feeling the same from today - I feel like my period is on its way but with some added lower back cramps I don't usually get, and spotting. I'm hoping you had good news today (for us both!)! My test isn't until next Wednesday - our clinic uses a test day of day 15 post transfer, even for day 5 transfers, so still have a while to wait!

[MrsXX]

Hi Flowetgirlhope,

I am experiencing the same symptoms like you(peroid symptoms). My test day is this Friday. So Nervous.. Wishing you Best of Luck for tomorrow. Keep us updated. I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for us.

[Booda21]

The tww really is the worst! All you can do is wait til rest day, which just does not help! Good luck today 💕

[Flowergirlhope]

Thanks all - Feeling heartbroken as had BFN this morning😭😭😭just wonder why its so easy for some to get pregnant.......thats it for us for a while😭😭just feel helpless and as though we have tried everything

BW for you all

[WillowPark in reply to Flowergirlhope]

So sorry to hear that, Flowergirlhope . Thanks for sharing. It really is so unfair.

[Hp07 in reply to Flowergirlhope]

So sorry to hear this, sending big hugs 💛 same for me, BFN as expected 👎 wish it was possible to know why but just have to tell myself this one wasn't meant to be 💔

[WillowPark in reply to Hp07]

So sorry. 😔 Hope you are both looking after yourselves tonight.

[Flowergirlhope in reply to WillowPark]

Bless - thanksx hope all goes well for you next week

[Flowergirlhope in reply to Hp07]

Ahh bless you & to you xx- do hope you get strength, so sorry to hear that your is neg. too😢I know wish we could know - as just nothing is working and even when everything looks perfect! Guess we just have to keep 🙏

Did you go for your blood test too?