Negative test - back to normal life - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

56,455 members59,773 posts

Negative test - back to normal life

cd497Q profile image
13 Replies

Hi everyone,

Hope that you are all doing well. Just had my pregnancy test after the two week wait, and it was negative. I had suspected this; for like 10 days of the wait I just felt normal and definitely not pregnant.

I am told there is now a 2-3 month wait for my body to get back to normal before I can have a frozen embryo put in. So I will have a nice glass of wine and lots of hugs tonight and be grateful for the potential little ones that are waiting in deep freeze!

I am happy to be off the progesterone pessaries as those were messy little b@&gers.

Does anyone else feel like they are in some kind of alien experiment?!

xx

Written by
cd497Q profile image
cd497Q
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
13 Replies
Kempton profile image
Kempton

Sorry to hear about your bfn. But you have just the right attitude - enjoy your wine and cuddles, and dream about those embryos. Your time is ever closer!

I was also unsuccessful in my first fresh round of ivf, but my FET several months later resulted in my beautiful baby boy.

Make sure you talk about how you are feeling with your partner. Maybe a counsellor too of you are not already seeing one.

Best of luck and here's to the future!

cd497Q profile image
cd497Q in reply toKempton

Thank you xx

kirstyblue profile image
kirstyblue

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Take care cx

Really sorry to hear of your BFN, really upsetting for you☹️ Definitely deserve a glass or few tonight. Hopefully the 3 months will fly by. xoxo

hifer profile image
hifer

Really sorry to hear this. Such a stressful time. Well done for being so positive though and looking to the future. x

Cinderella5 profile image
Cinderella5

Sotty to hear you got a BFN. Its pretty rubbish after going through everything but you have a great attitude to look at some down time and nice things that you can enjoy meantime! Look after yourselves.xx

Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

I’m sorry. Bfns are harsh no matter how much we try to prepare for them. Enjoy your wine, enjoy your break and better luck next time xx

Oh, sorry to read this. Totally sucks. We took a break and a holiday and enjoyed all the cocktails! It’s really tough but you’re sounding really strong and you will be ready in a few months to try again. Wishing you all the best xx

LegoBatgirl profile image
LegoBatgirl

Sorry to hear this. I know it's not any consolation but hopefully this means you can have a stress free Christmas and New Year and try again in the new year x

AS100 profile image
AS100

So sorry for the negative test ❤️ I didn’t feel normal in my tww but also knew all along it hadnt worked 😖Haha yes I get what you mean about the experiment, the whole thing is nuts & I never miss the pessaries!

Enjoy your wine and hugs tonight 🤗 and 2-3 months will fly by especially with some mulled wine in between Xx

KJLee profile image
KJLee

So sorry to hear you had a bfn. My first fresh cycle was a bfn and we took the summer off and tried again with our sole frostie which resulted in a bfp so I have every hope you’ll get a your result soon. I’ve heard the FET’s can be more successful as your body has had change to recover from egg collection. Defo enjoy the wine and cuddles tonight and start again fresh in the new year. Have everything crossed for you! Xx

Hope4usall profile image
Hope4usall

I'm so sorry to hear of your negative result. Sending lots of hugs xx

Stacia profile image
Stacia

Sorry about the BFN. i experienced that during my last cycle and i felt like the world was making fun of me. it helps to forget about things and have fun a little bit. i took the break we got married and I enrolled at college. i feel i`m ready to start.

Listen to your body and your mind, when you are ready, go again. xxx

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Negative test 15dp5dt

I've been counting down to today with quiet hope. I'd even made the mistake of thinking about how...
DSPurple profile image

Scared to test....I want to stay in my bubble 😬🙃

Hi everyone, Hope all is well as can be 😃 I know a lot of people test early because they can...
Faith103 profile image

To test or not to test ?

Hiya ladies I am struggling, if you don't count the first day of transfer I am 6dp5dt or 7dp5dt,...

Finally getting back to 'normal'

I feel like I am slowly getting my body back to 'normal' again after my CP. I was tracking my...
silverlini profile image

IVF NEGATIVE TEST 10days post transfer

Hi, i was just looking for some word of wisdom whilst my sprits are low! This is my second go of...
JessJ25 profile image

Moderation team

See all
Claire_FNUK profile image
Claire_FNUKAdministrator
JA-fnuk profile image
JA-fnukPartner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.