Trigger: Late loss and live birth mentions
Quick list of things that worked for me after 3 years of IVF treatment , 6 rounds, a late loss at 18 weeks, and finally a live birth at 43 years old. I was lucky to have lots of eggs (averaging 14 each collection), good number of blasts (averaging 4 per round) and a higher than average rate of PGT normal for my age (1 in 4) - without that, I'm not sure I would have kept going with OE at 42.
1. Hysteroscopy. Twice. So worth the cost for a pristine uterus. I didn't *need* it second time round, but I think the subsequent inflammation can help blood supply and implantation.
2. hCG wash just before transfer. So cheap! So easy! 5 failed transfers (including one PGT normal) and then bingo - sticky embryo after hCG wash 20 mins before transfer. A new US study is recommending hCG through stims with strikingly positive results.
3. Buserlin for Adenomyosis. My doctor didn't want to treat my mild adeno in case it shut down my ovaries, so we compromised with a short downreg of Buserlin for 3 weeks. Worth a try if you're wary of Lupron etc.
4. DHEA. Jumped up my egg numbers threefold. Don't be scared it will "fry your eggs". My testosterone went through the roof, but doctor said "that's what happens". And my eggs were much better quality too.
5. Prednisolone. I did IVIG too. Not sure if it helped, but prednisone certainly muted my immune response and resulted in implantation.
6. A great clinic with excellent embryologists and doctors that believe in you. Don't follow the crowd. I regret the one (useless) round I did with a popular south London private hospital. I needed much more aggressive treatment and regular access to the doctor (not just left to nurses).
7. IVF not ICSI (unless male factor). I think ICSI is overused. I did one round of ICSI and my fertilisation rate tanked from 85% to 30%. My doctor advocates for ordinary IVF where possible.
8. One last thing- I took expensive NAD supplements - Tru Niagen - one round. That round I produced 8 blasts! Great quality, but only 1 PGT normal of the 6 we tested. Don't know if it works, but the results were interesting.
Good luck everyone.
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I forgot to add that counselling from SANDS, the infant loss charity, and EMDR from my local NHS provider helped cope with the trauma of infertility and made me prepare for the possibility of not having a baby too. I recommend talking therapies just to survive the awfulness of it all. Counsellors are amazing and I didn't know it until I needed them.