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We’re officially out this round. I turn 41 tomorrow so happy birthday to me! 😂🤦‍♀️

They were actually our worst grade embryos even though we have 2 left, as for some reason they’d been frozen together. It made sense to transfer them first in case there were any problems with the thaw.

On we plod… xx

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Purple276

Oh Solly I'm so sorry 😞 This journey is so unfair and I'm gutted for you. Sending you loads of hugs and care xx

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Solly-44 in reply toPurple276

Thank you, and big hug congratulations to you lovely, just saw your post! 🥰 xx

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Noah1981

Oh Solly I’m gutted for you .I had all my hopes pinned on this cycle for you .Xxx

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Solly-44 in reply toNoah1981

Ahh thanks lovely lady. We’ll be fine. Hope you’re doing well?Xx

Oh Solly, this sh1t really is unfair sometimes, was so hoping you would get some good news. Sending you the biggest hug xx

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Solly-44 in reply to

Thanks lovely. I actually feel completely numb to it, haven’t even had a little cry, which as someone who’s usually insanely emotional is quite a relief 😂 xx

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Twiglet2

So sorry 😢 birthdays can make it harder I know 💜 I hope you still manage to have a nice day you deserve to spoil yourself xx

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Solly-44 in reply toTwiglet2

Thanks lovely. I’m actually feeling ok about it. I think having the better grade embryos left in the freezer is helping a bit! Hope your gang is doing good 😊 xx

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Twiglet2 in reply toSolly-44

yeah always better when you have some on ice especially good quality ones! We are all good thank you 😊 xx

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Nuszkahope

Sorry to hear that Solly :( I also turned 41 so time is pushing me to try for a second baby soon even though my little girl is only 10 months old… it looks like it will not be an easy ride for me again either as I have two big endometriomas that has to be removed before I even start the treatment again, yet another operation and all after a C section, yuppie 🙄 Gosh I wish we didn’t have to go through all this pain to have a baby, what a drag…

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Solly-44 in reply toNuszkahope

I know, imagine a life without having to give all of this a second thought! Eurgh I’m sorry you’re facing more surgery, it’s never ending isn’t it xx

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Klndmr

Im so gutted for you I did hope by OTD things will change. Its so blo0dy frustrating 🤨🤨🤨🤨 On another note you can get drunk on your birthday 🙈🙈🙈 Sending you the biggest hugs and lots and lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

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Solly-44 in reply toKlndmr

Thank you lovely! I was hoping too but I knew in my heart it hadn’t worked this time around. Wishing you all the luck for tomorrow xxx

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Klndmr in reply toSolly-44

Thank you ever so much hun ❣️❤️❤️

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Hoop123

I'm so sorry Solly 💔😥 xx

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Solly-44 in reply toHoop123

Thank you lovely, we will be ok. 1 last try! Hope you’re good xx

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Redsequin

Uff oh no. I’m sorry Solly. So disappointing for you. Glad you have a few high grade ones left in the freezer though, and hope you have a lovely birthday despite all this. I would defo have a glass of wine or three!! 🧡

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Solly-44 in reply toRedsequin

Thanks lovely! Well I wouldn’t say high grade but a bit better than these ones 🤞 I definitely will do! Hope you’re good xx

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Redsequin in reply toSolly-44

I have started referring to my v average Frosties as “solid” 😂; I think you should go with that! Anyway happy birthday, lovely. I hope you get some lovely gifts and cards to cheer you up xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

Crap news, but nice to see you're my birthday twin!! I'm 43 tomorrow.

I suspect we'll both be downing quite a lot of vino and not feeling particularly celebratory. Sending big hugs xxx

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HollyT7

Urrrrghhhh 👎🏼🍀 Have a few drinks tmw and make the most of it as you'll be into your next 9 month stint before you know it ❤️😘🤞🏼 xxx

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Fairytale22

so sorry to hear this x

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Somoe

Sorry to hear this, glad you’re feeling ok and I hope you get spoilt for your birthday tomorrow x

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Millbanks

Oh love, it’s just the most rubbish feeling isn’t it.

But I will say happy birthday to you because you deserve it xxx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that Solly.xx

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