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9dp5dt bfn πŸ’” FET/ 4th & final round

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My lovely ladies, I was hopeful that this time will be the lucky one after laparoscopy and hysteroscopy, with blood thinning injections and higher medication doses and a lot of symptoms during the tww... But I got another bfn this morning πŸ’” My OTD is on Friday 14dp5dt, i will keep taking my medication, but at least I know i'm out and i can now prepare myself to join my hubby in the states in December. We took the decision to stop IVF and try naturally without any extra effort, because if it's meant to happen it will and we're really tired and our life has been on hold since we got married last year.

I know a lot of you have been struggling for years, my jouney is only a year old, but due to my age my clock is ticking. I salute all the strong ladies who never give up! You are superheroes! πŸ’ͺπŸ‘ I wish all of you the best of luck in your journeys πŸ€žπŸ€, this group has been my support system. Kisses to all of you 🀍

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I’m so sorry you’ve tested negative today, and that you feel this is your final round πŸ’”

I’m sure others will tell you not to give up hope until your official test day, so hold out and test again. Everything crossed that it will change for you. And if not, then I wish you so much luck for your future steps and hope for the best for you xx

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Future1000 in reply to XOXO13

Thanks XOXO for your kind words, I'm holding a little bit of hope until test day but at least i won't be surprised if it's still negative. Sending you lots of hugs πŸ₯°

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Hopeful8367

Hi! Please don’t lose hope. On my last (4th) IVF cycle I took an at home pregnancy test and it was negative but I continued to take the injections and now I have a healthy 6 month old. I have low AMH, no Fallopian tubes and stage 4 endo and have had a bowel resection. Trust that I understand how it’s extremely difficult-mentally, financially and physically-but please don’t lose hope. Sending love and light your way.

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Future1000 in reply to Hopeful8367

Thanks for your words, they give me some hope 🀞. you're truly a great warrior. Congratulations on your rainbow baby! πŸ₯³

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Hopeful8367 in reply to Future1000

Thank you so much! You too are a warrior and you are in my prayers!πŸ’•βœ¨

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Babysitt

So sorry but pls and pls don’t give up. Continue with the medication till 14th a miracle can happen also I never gave up until I was 48years on my 7th ivf when it worked for me and have a little boy now. Please and please never gave up. Your miracle is on its way. Join your husband and things will work out

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Future1000 in reply to Babysitt

You are so sweet and a fighter!! ❀ I'm still taking my medication and I believe that once I join my hubby things will change because doing it all by myself was so tough and I kind of feel lonely throughout the process which I'm sure is affecting the whole procedure. Hugs your wayπŸ€—

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Koala365

Sorry to hear about your BFN. I got a BFN yesterday as well. Really, really upset as this was our 4th stimulation cycle and we put 3 embryos back and have never had anything we can freeze. Like you, we are going to try naturally as life has been on hold for so long. Today is our second wedding anniversary and we got pregnant as soon as we tried after getting married then had an MMC and partial molar scare but got all clear and then did 4 IVFS in a year so our baby quest and the resultant heartache has dominated our entire marriage and enough is enough. I don't know how I will cope if I end up childless forever after my loss but I do believe in miracles so please God here we come! Praying you get your miracle too xx

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Future1000 in reply to Koala365

Ohhhh my dear so sorry for your bfn πŸ˜” We are going through the same, and yes failed cycles can break our hearts, and sometimes you really feel unable to go through another cycle. Congrats on you 2nd anniversary, plz plz enjoy celebrating it with your hubby and I wish you the best of luck in you TTC journey, I will keep you in my prayers as well and never lose hope. I always believe that when the time is right things will happen for us. Hugs and kisses 🀍

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