9dp5dt BFN

[Rella22]

Hi all,

I caved and tested a day before my OTD, which will be tomorrow. Unfortunately, it was a stark white beside a big one liner.

Hubby was upset I took the test and does not believe it. In my heart I know it’s real. Just can’t believe 2 supposedly perfect embryos disappeared into nothing. I’ve had no symptoms other than the typical progesterone ones.

Is there any chance? Or should I expect the beta to be negative?

Last transfer, I was absolutely crushed following my beta result. This time around having done the home hcg test decreased my anxiety but the pain is the same. It’s strange one minute I’m thinking “it’s okay we can just try again,” next minute I hate the world, and then another I’m like “forget it, I’ll just move on with life.”

A repetition of emotions going from rage, confusion, contentment and hope. Sending you all positive energy and that you get your miracle baby.

[LeBonBon]

I’m so sorry to hear that - I know that feeling well and it’s so heart breaking.

It may not be completely over yet though - things can change overnight. And it also depends on the pregnancy test that you used, as some are more sensitive than others and it may just be too early.

Hold on just one more day and see what it brings (easier said than done!) - am keeping everything crossed for you 🤞x

[Rella22 in reply to LeBonBon]

Thank you 🙏

I’ll try to be hopeful until then, appreciate the feedback

[Muppetgirl]

Wait for bloods. I tested on my otd and it was a negative. Bloods next day were positive. Now 30 weeks pregnant. Whatever happens, I wish you well.

[Rella22 in reply to Muppetgirl]

That’s amazing congratulations! This gives me hope. I really hope the beta is positive. Tomorrow can’t come soon enough !

[AliceMoonpie]

I know what you mean about the rage. I went through 2 whole days of just screaming in my head "I want my baby! I want my baby! I want my baby!"

[Rella22 in reply to AliceMoonpie]

Exactly! It’s such a torturous process. And today is my anniversary, makes it more difficult to be happy and celebrate that 🤦‍♀️

[aamiller405]

I think dont give up hope yet there's still time for thst BFP 🤞 xo

[Rella22 in reply to aamiller405]

Thank you for that support!

Unfortunately the beta results are in and have confirmed it’s a BFN. Absolutely crushed. I was hoping I’d get to enjoy my anniversary and now I’m finding it hard to be happy.

[Tryagain45 in reply to Rella22]

So sorry for your sad news. I know there's nothing anyone can say to make you feel better. Take the time to grieve and be mad and be kind to yourself. Lots of hugs x

[aamiller405 in reply to Rella22]

I'm so sorry.. Its devastating.. It will take time to get over.. Don't rush yourself.. And take care xo

[Picalilli99 in reply to Rella22]

So sorry it’s not the result you were hoping for. Getting a BFN is just devastating. Sending you love and hugs. Take care lovely xxx

[Noah1981]

Hang In There it’s not over xx

[Rella22 in reply to Noah1981]

Sadly it didn’t work. I’m starting to regroup myself now with a new direction and trying to stay focused on the end goal: a baby.

Thanks for all the support ❤️

[Lots8788]

So sorry to hear that x big hugs to you x take it easy x

[Ivf2]

Hi there i am 9dp6dt and clear bfn on poas. No hope.

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Try to stay positive and your result can change tomorrow!!! Best of luck!