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hi thank you everyone for the support. yesterday was my otd and obviously bfn. very painful since we really exerted effort on this , emotionally financially and mentally but nothing can beat the reality that it failed. i havent feel any symptoms like cramping or any changes in my body for the past 10 days so i actually know the embryo did not stick. we are getting ready for the second FET early next year. hoping. for those who are now on TWW. dont stress yourself looking for symptoms. it will just drive you crazy. just continue to pray and be positive and of course expect and prepare yourself for the worst. have a happy journey guyz.. :) see u next year in this thread again. by the way if it failed just cry it on.. cry and cry until the pain is gone.. :) mwaaah

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butterfliez

Aww I’m very sorry to hear this such a difficult time . sending strength your way ! & positive thoughts for the next attempt , new year , new hope ! all the best xx

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lex8719 in reply to butterfliez

thank you.. :)

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ashalez

I'm sorry 😪to hear this hope for the best next one 😘

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Blue1978

So sorry to hear this lovely, it’s awful isn’t it 😭😭 I’m so glad to know you’ve got another shot at it next year, in the meantime heal and rest up 😔 Sending hugs and great luck for next round 🤞🏻🤞🏻💟💟

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lex8719 in reply to Blue1978

its okay.. i can move on.. we can do nothing but hope for the best.. the best is yet to come.

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RecipIVF

Hi there...I’m in the exact same position as you. Sending you lots of positive vibes. At least we have Christmas as a distraction! I’ve started acupuncture and conceive plus supplements in the hope it works next time. Fingers crossed for everyone on here xxx

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Green-elephants

Sorry to hear this. I too had a my first frozen embryo transfer in October, we did get a positive but had an early miscarriage at 6 weeks. Completely broken. Like you say had a good cry, trying to dust ourselves off and look to the next frozen transfer in feb/march 2021. Hope 2021 is kinder to us both ♡ xx

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Emloup

Hi. Same for me a week ago. But I had all the symptoms but it must have been the progesterone. Cruel trick. But in the lucky position of another FET next year. Best of luck to you xx

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LifetoCherish

So sorry to hear this, wishing you the best of luck for next year 🍍✨🧚🏻‍♀️💕

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Daxie24

Sending lots of love and hugs xxx

So sorry to hear about your loss

That is nerve wracking, heart breaking and it is necessary to have your time and time to grief and heal.

As I have a lot of experience with helping to get and stay pregnant with women over 40, Id just advise each of you to give your body and mind a bit of time to rest, recover and hear and when you're ready change what wasn't working. Check everything! Praying, meditation and any spiritual practice is great to support the mindset but it won't fix poor egg quality, unchecked uterine lining, undiscovered autoimmune conditions or untreated blood clotting! Consult Wellness Expert, Nutrional Therapist, someone who guides you in this all and makes this journey as short and painless as possible

Big hug to everyone ❤

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Cyprus1975

So sorry that this didn’t work out for you . Wishing you all the very best and positive thoughts for your next cycle . 🙏🙏

Maria x

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