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The ever changing seasons of ivf. Hold on! Summer always comes πŸ™πŸ»

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Home and recovering from my ERPC surgery yesterday and just wanted to say thank you to all of you who reached out with hugs of support and advice .

It would be a harder road without you all.πŸ’πŸ˜˜

As I lay in my side room waiting for my surgery I spotted this lovely tree outside the window and I felt sad that summer was ending and the leaves were about to fall off . Then I remembered the lovely lockdown spring walks I’d had a few months back . That only seemed like a couple of weeks ago now!

Time passes so quickly and just like the seasons, no matter how rubbish your season/ place on the ivf road may feel , just remember....

Like the seasons, your current place is just temporary .

It won’t always feel like this. Take heart in the support you have and hold on.

After winter comes spring again .

Holding on to hope for us all. πŸ’πŸ’–πŸ’“

Brighter days will always come.πŸŒ…

And although we wAit impatiently for them, try to see the beauty of the place/season you are in.

Massive hugs of understanding for all those ivf sisters recovering from the same at the minute .

We will be alright in a minute. πŸ’

Hugs πŸ€—

🦏 🐈 x

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This is a lovely message, RhinoCat. Wishing you all the best and a strong recovery (emotionally and physically) after what you've been through. Thanks for the reminder that there is no permanency and new days will come. Lots of love xxxxx

RhinoCat in reply to ttcemmie

πŸ˜˜πŸ’ thanks so much

This is just lovely ❀️ Sending you lots of hugs back. Xxx

RhinoCat in reply to Sas1101

Thanks Sas πŸ˜˜πŸ’ have a great day

Awwww this is just beautiful Rhinocat! It takes a very special person to reach out in their time of despair to help others see better times are ahead. I hope you are healing, take it easy lovely! Lots of love to you both.xxxx

RhinoCat in reply to Cinderella5

I’m lying up being served by the husband πŸ˜˜πŸ’ tough times but they will pass. Hugs to you πŸ’πŸ˜˜

Cinderella5 in reply to RhinoCat

Thank you! Glad to hear you are being looked after honey.....take care!!xxx

This is such a positive lovely message rhinocat! I hope you are recovering well. Your positive outlook and mindset is so inspiring. Lots of hugs xxx

RhinoCat in reply to PenguinBlue

πŸ˜˜πŸ’ I don’t know another way πŸ˜˜πŸ’ thanks for your hugs πŸ€—

PenguinBlue in reply to RhinoCat

It’s a great mindset and mentality to have. It will definitely help you as you begin your recovery. Hope you’re being pampered right now and take it nice and easy xxx

Get well soon RhinoCat! Great post 😊

RhinoCat in reply to hannahkc

Thanks pet πŸ˜˜πŸ’ hope you have a great day πŸ’–

Such a beautiful post x thank you, I definitely needed to be reminded that better days will come. Hope you are doing ok, sending lots of hugs xx

Doing ok for now, I’m not too bad physically and I’ve space to cry to let my emotions heal too. Hugs to you πŸ˜˜πŸ’

The impatience is real! But you are right, thank you for the reminder. Ivf makes you feel frantic and anxious and sometimes I need to stop and remember all the other good things in life. Hope your heart is mending xxx

RhinoCat in reply to Millbanks

We put an awful pressure on ourselves in it all. If we are in charge of the pressure we are also in charge of the calm . Breathe deep, πŸ˜˜πŸ’

thank you thank you for reminding us .. u take a good care ofyourself lovely.

RhinoCat in reply to Mimisami

Thanks lovely πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ’

Lovely positive message. β€οΈπŸ’—β€οΈπŸ’—β€οΈ xxxx

RhinoCat in reply to Faith103


This is beautiful RhinoCat. You really are an inspiration of positivity for all of us! I love reading your posts and it makes me think if she can do it so can I!! Sending all the blessings your way that you recover quickly and get back on the ivf horse Xxxx

RhinoCat in reply to Ladypii

Bless ya πŸ˜˜πŸ’

Oh you are a beautiful soul πŸ€—β€οΈ

Lovely words to read while at work (Tuesday is the busiest day of the week😀🀯) I wish you a speedy recovery and lots of love...

We need people like you here ❀️

RhinoCat in reply to Ranchu90

Hugs to you, Tuesday means three more sleeps to the weekend πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’–πŸ€© keep er lit!

Always positive, always a warrior. Your strength and hope is admirable and beautiful. Sending you so much love πŸ’•

RhinoCat in reply to Corchi

Thanks pet πŸ˜˜πŸ’

Such a lovely well written post which sums up pretty much everything going on in our lives. As much as it scares me that the seasons are changing and I am still at where I was before, as you said, it’s all temporary. I wish you a super quick recovery so you can get back in to this crazy journey again. All the best 😊

Wise words. Sending you lots of love as always - hope your body heals soon and your feel stronger over time, it all does get easier xx

That almost brought a tear to my eye, well done you for getting through today and still thinking of others. Your absolutely right, you deserve all the nice messages and hugs. This will pass, xxx

Lovely post. Actually made me cry. Hope your getting lots of support. Admire your outlook on life. Really need to take a leaf out of your book. Xx

This is such a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. Sending you a big hug lovely xx

What an inspiration and uplifting post, you are such and amazing lady to be writing such beautiful words in your time of hardship. Wishing and sending you all the πŸ’“ and healing vibes I can find xx get well soon hun x

Oh rhinocat what a lovely post - made me cry with its poignancy, so lovely of you to write such a post to give others strength when you must feel like your heart has been torn out. Thank you this helped me immensely and I know will have helped many others. You are right seasons change and our time will come πŸ’• hope you are getting rest and you and your partner getting lots of TLC , sending you much love and wishing you happier times ahead xxx

A really lovely post and amazing that you are able to be so positive even at such a difficult time. Sending you loads of love and hugs xx

Massive hugs ! Xx

Lovely post. Sending a big virtual hug your way πŸ’ž xx

What a lovely post Rhinocat when you’ve been through such a lot. You’re amazing and so strong. An inspiration to us all on here. Wishing you lots of time to relax and recover after all this and I know you’ll keep going stronger than ever. Sending lots of positive vibes your way & lots of love 🌈 xx

Beautiful words, sending you lots of love for your recovery 😘 xx

This is beautiful πŸ’ Thank you. xxx

Hope you are recovering well, taking time to heal and rest. So sorry to hear all that you have gone through recently.

Be kind to yourself and absolutely enjoy all the things in life that we can, no matter how small they may seem πŸ’ 🍫 🍷 🌳 πŸ‚ β˜€οΈ x x

Hope by now you are feeling a bit better after your surgery. And hoping you will feel stronger and stronger emotionally too, after such an ordeal. Thinking of you often lovely πŸ’ž x

RhinoCat in reply to AuroraXen

Thanks pet. I’ve to go back to the epu again on Monday 😣but I’m hoping I’m on road to recovery now as I’m starting to feel a bit brighter.

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