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❤️❤️❤️ Hey my lovely ladies sorry I didn’t reply to you all but just needed the time to switch off and not think for ivf for a bit. Thanks for all you love and support! I’m here for you all and will always be 😍😍😍💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hey my lovely ladies it’s me again. Hope you are all well. Unfortunately not the update I wanted to share with you but that’s life, and there is nothing we can do to change what is meant to happen 💕💕💕

Just had a phone call from my clinic and hcg has dropped to 13. This is some kind of a cruel joke man 3 transfers, 3 positives and 3 chemicals how unlucky isn’t it?

But life goes on and we have no choice but carry on! I won’t give up trust me I already have a plan in place 😂 For now I will have a bottle of Prosecco and then cry my eyes out till I fall asleep and tomorrow will wake up full of power, positivity and ready to fight for that miracle lol 💕💕💕💕

Just thought will share a photo of hubby and me! For that man I will do anything to make him happy! I’m grateful for having him next to me as he always makes things easier! He never made me feel a failure even the opposite, he always makes me feel like the strongest and luckiest person in the world! 💕💕💕💕

Sending much love your way sweet people and I will be always around to offer support when needed or share your happiness with you! thank you with all my heart for always helping me feel better! You are all fantastic! 💕💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙈🙈🙈

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Tugsgirl

As always, I love your positivity, but I don’t love that this has happened to you again. Sending hugs xx

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Picalilli99

I’m so so sorry. Reading this just made me well up 😢. Your attitude is inspiring! So pleased that you have each other at this devastating time. That means so much 💕. Take care of each other and enjoy the Prosecco lovely. Sending love and huge hugs 💕 and really hoping that your time will come very soon 🙏🤞🙏 xx

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Kitcat12

I'm so sorry lovely, I was really hoping to see some better news today. Your positivity is inspirational, keep on keeping on xx

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Stephybivf

I am so so sorry to read this. I’ve been thinking of u all day with everything crossed. Gutted for you both xxx take care of each other xx

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EmGLA

Oh I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of love. Xx

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Georgie17

You are such a fighter and I love how strong and positive you are able to be. I am so sorry this time wasn’t it for you but you are right not to give up. I hope your clinic can offer some advice for your next round and we are all here to support so keep us posted. Enjoy your Prosecco xx

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Millbanks

You are such a sweetheart 💖 I’m so sorry. This horrendous journey we are on hey.... keep smiling and enjoy that Prosecco xxxx

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L2213

I’m so sorry to hear this, thinking of you and sending hugs xxx

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Littlepeax

Beautiful photo of you both ♥️💫♥️💫

You are so incredibly strong, positive and brave - such an inspiration. Xxx

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Lots8788

Lovely picture of you both hun x x whatever you decide to do next, you have so got this. You're so strong and brave and that alongside your positive outlook will get you to where you want to be

Big big hugs xx xxx ❤❤❤😘😘

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Baby_gurl

I am so sorry that things didn’t work out again. Sending lots of love your way 💞💞

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KiboXX

You’re amazing! I’m so sorry it wasn’t the news you wanted today but you will get there because you’re an absolute warrior. You’re a gorgeous couple. Enjoy the hell out of that Prosecco. Huge hugs xxx

Oh my gosh what a horrible day for you. I hope they find out what is going on. Always good to have a plan definitely. It always helped me through to the next attempt to have one. Enjoy your prosecco and here's to the next time.

Big hugs for today xxx

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dreams28

Sorry to hear this. Your time will come!! Lovely picture x

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Cinderella5

Awww my lovely! I've been looking for your update all day....I'm so sorry!!💔 I know you're putting a brave face on and making the most if things but I also know this hurts like hell!! Enjoy your prosecco! You two are such a gorgeous couple and it is clear to see that you are a force to be reckoned with!! I've shed a little tear for you both, the way you speak about your OH!!💕💕💕 Its not bloody fair, we have so much to give to a little one!😪 Sending lots of love & hugs!!xxx

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CLDxxx

I’m so sorry 😢it really is so unlucky and unfair. Your positivity is amazing and I’m so pleased you have such a lovely hubby by your side.

Enjoy your prosecco and some more! Sending love 💗 xxx

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Purplis

...It usually doesn't make sense especially when we love to be in control and make sense of everything but your positive attitude is out of this world. The desired outcome will surely come; when? Can't say but never lose the man and the attitude.😍

I also had a negative beta results today and waiting for DH to return with the full-bodied red wine I requested 🥰

Looking forward to next time soon.

Hugs xxx

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AuroraXen in reply toPurplis

Really sorry to hear this Purplis😢 Wishing you lots of strength in this horrible time . Enjoy that wine!💜 x

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Solly-44

I’m so sorry it wasn’t good news. You give so much to others, you really deserve for it to be your time. Will be thinking of you

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Olivia1980xxx

I’m so sorry hun 😔 u r such a strong person and good things happen to good people and it will happen to u 🙏 I just wish for my self to have so much strength like u . Sending u lots of love hun 😘xx

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Afrohair

I’m so sorry love! I know your trying to be brave it’s ok to be in sorrow for a while.your rainbow will come soon I’ll pray for you my love xx

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ttcemmie

Thanks for the positive post. Really sorry to hear this round has resulted like this. Awful awful news. We're all here for you and rooting for the next round. Impressed you already have a plan in place, and are looking to the future already (after alcohol and crying, obviously!). Beautiful photo. Is your partner drinking milk?

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AuroraXen

I'm really just so sorry to hear this Klndmr💔 Life just isn't fair 😢 If it was, you'd already have your little one. Blown away by how strong you are xx

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Anya80

I’m sorry to hear that:( but you sluch a strong woman and I admire you a lot, one day your dreams will come true I’m sure of it💪💝❤️💝

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Tiddly1984

Bless you. So sorry this happened for the 3rd time which can’t be easy. Hoping your positivity, grit and optimism is rewarded soon....x

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everhopeful83

So sorry to read this 😞💖 sending you so many hugs & positive vibes for your next plan✨❤️✨❤️xxxxx

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Lavender96

Oh I’m so sorry this wasn’t your time 😔 this process can be so cruel and unfair. You have such a lovely positive attitude and I’m so pleased to hear a lovely supportive hubby to help you through this time! Enjoy your prosseco, sending lots of love and hugs xx

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hifer

So so sorry to hear your news. Sending much love xx

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FrancyItaly

Awww I’m sorry to hear that. Why is life so unfair! But you are right, there is a story for all of us and we can’t change when it’s meant to be. I’m sure one day soon enough it will be your time! I love your positivity! It makes me feel positive too and you are truly inspiring! I will pray for you too, you deserve it! 🙏🏻❤️

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J3nna

So sorry to read this! Hope your future plans work out for you! X

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Core

So sorry to read this that is really unfair. You are such an amazing strong positive woman and sounds like you have a fantastic relationship which helps so much for this process. Sending hugs xx

I’m so angry and upset for you - you so deserved a better outcome. Hope they are going to do some additional tests and try to get to the bottom of it - huge hugs xx

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Bing84

Sorry to hear this but you should be so proud of yourself for being so inspiring. You’ve helped me drag myself off my sofa wallowing in self pity. Be kind to yourself and hope your time comes soon xx

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KayCan

What a gorgeous pair 💕 I'm so sorry it wasn't the outcome you were hoping for, I was rooting for you. Have a good cry, enjoy your prosecco cos you bloody deserve it!! I know you'll come back with some positivity soon, you definitely deserve your happy ending 🥰

Take care and lots of love xx

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Keepingfaith85

Sending you a cuddle 🤗 So sorry for what you've been through but so glad you have such determination and a lovely man by your side! You so deserve better news xxx

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L400ynd

😘😘😘😘

How did you just made me cry? I mean, your positivity is SO AMAZING! I don’t even know you and I can already tell you’re a beautiful human being and one day you will be an amazing mummy! Your hubby is so lucky to have you too ❤️I’m so sorry you’re in such a difficult path, but I love that you already have a plan B. I am a plan B girl myself 😃💪🏻Bottle of Prosecco sounds lovely, crying is also good for the soul.

At the end of the day, what matters are not how many times we fall, but the times we get back up! Fall the 3rd, get up the 4th ❤️

WE CAN DO IT! ❤️Sending hugs your way!

Ps: you and hubby are such a great couple!

Xx

Your such a wonderful human being and that positivity will get your through this xx you will get your happiness and bloody enjoy that prosecco xx always here if you want to talk ❤️

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Kyell2

Aw I’m so sorry my love. Enjoy your Prosecco, cuddle your hubby and take the time to grieve. Sending hugs xxx

You are a true soldier girl. Keep going, you will get there im sure.

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gattonero

Sending you a massive warm hug, hon. Keep taking care of yourself as you are already doing 🧡 There's so much love in this pic, you both are very lucky to have each other, so strong and smiling despite the tough fight you are going through. You really are a good example for all of us 🌟💛

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Jebby86

I’m so sorry that this has happened to you again. Life really is cruel sometimes. Sending you love and thinking about you during this crappy time.

Stay strong and I really hope that next time is the one that sticks for you 💖 xx

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Gem5

I’m so sorry this has happened to you again, life is so unfair but stay strong and positive. I believe if you want something badly enough it WILL happen 🙏😘

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Dreamingofbaby

Gutted for u both but yep positivity is only way forward. U can do this. Crying good n understandable too Take good care hun cx

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Scarlett13

So sorry to hear this has happened again but so glad to hear you sounding positive and a strong couple. Positivity and togetherness will get you through! I had 3 fresh cycles and 8 transfers and one miscarriage but am now 35 weeks pregnant so hang on in there and keep going. Couldn’t have done it without my amazing partner and family and friends and colleagues. Enjoy that prosecco, cry until your eyes are dry, then pick yourselves up and get ready to go again xxxx

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RhinoCat

Awh sweet love 💕 😢 so sorry to read this update . So lucky to have an amazing husband who just quietly marches on with you 😘

Wish this result wasn’t true 😔 having a sniffle for you 😢

Enjoy that Prosecco 😔😘😘😘😘😘💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🏻

Hugs of support

Rhinocat x 💐

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Michael30

So sorry to hear this attempt hasn’t worked. As everyone has said you are amazing and have such strength with each other and that’s amazing! I know you will get there in the end. Loads of love and support to you both xxx

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Kiedy84

Oh my lovely I am so terribly sorry 😭💔

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Shelleybean

So sorry to read this 😢, your ability to remain positive during heartbreak is so inspiring. Really glad you have great support from your hubby. Take good care of each other. Sending lots of love and hope for the future 💕 xx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so sorry it wasn't good news - again. It's incredible to see how you pick yourself up and dust yourself off. You're both amazing and you'll be wonderful parents when the time comes. When you start to feel ready to go again are you thinking of having the embryos tested? Sending you huuuge hugs xxx

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Hopingmommy2b

Thank you so much for your post. It is truly uplifting!! Much needed for me today, as I got my negative confirmed...my hcg went down to one...and I’m pretty heartbroken. I have PCOS, turning 41, 2 natural miscarriages, and now 2 failed IVF’s...about to throw in the towel...thank you for reminding me that I’m not alone, that I have an amazing hubby by my side, and that there is still hope. ❤️

I absolutely hated reading this, but I loved looking at your beautiful face full of life and hope. Thank you for giving us all the courage to keep going. I don’t know how you do it?!

I also think that times like this make you realise who the special people are in your life. Your relationship is now unbreakable! So important to remember, because most couples don’t survive this and yours has flourished ❤️

It’s also ok, not to be ok - as you have said in so many posts. But, we can do this!! 💪🏼

I will be doing back-to-back cycles this year, starting in March so I am with you! Let’s do this and get the job done 💪🏼💪🏼❤️❤️

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Skippy1982

So sorry to hear this 😞. I admire your strength and positivity throughout all you’ve experienced! Keep going hun, you’re resilience will get you there. But for now you deserve that whole bottle of Prosecco! Big hugs xxx💓

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Shirazlover2013

Wow 3 on the trot, what are the chances??? I’m so sorry this time hasn’t worked out. You are such an amazing person (as is your hubby by the sounds of things) and will power on with your tremendous positivity. For now, cheers mate I’ll get myself a Prosecco to match yours xx

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Kat_15

I’m so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs and much love. xxx

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Rainbowhope

What am amazing bitter sweet post. You are so strong. You look like an amazing couple. Be strong. Xxxx

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Drives

You are one very strong and inspiring lady. I'm so sorry to read your update, can't imagine how you're feeling.

Sending you lots of love and look after yourself 😘 x x x

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ChristineB05

I'm so sorry hun. This is a tough journey but your positivity is amazing. I don't doubt that with your persistence and determination that you will release your dream.

For now enjoy your Prosecco with your hubby. Take care 😘😘

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Rowly88

I've just seen your post, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. It's very very unfair

Sending you both so much love and hugs during this difficult time xxx 😘

Your positivity is truly amazing and an inspiration for others to keep fighting xxx

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3005

Soo sorry to read this man, I’m absolutely gutted for you! You’re so positive and brave and I really do hope you’re little miracle is just around the corner.

Keep that positivity up you’re amazing xxx

Sending you lots of love and hugs 💕

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crisps88

Good luck lovely so sorry to hear your sad news but the most beautiful words about your amazing marriage. You are both very lucky to have each other.

Hoping to hear your positive progress. Take care darling. Xxxx

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