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BFN - heartbroken 😢

Just want to thank everyone on here for there support through our first journey with ivf. You have all been amazing!

Unfortunately we got a BFN thismorning, I kind of knew anyway, however we're both heart broken!

I am going to have a bit of time away for now to try and get myself back in a good strong place so me and DH can try again.

I wish all you lovely ladies all the best where ever you are in ur cycle and thank you all again from the bottom of my heart for all the support!!

Will be back soon!!

Take care xxxx

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I don't know what to say that I didn't say in my pm to you but you know I'm here for you xx

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So sorry. Take care x

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So sorry to read this. It's a hard journey and so heartbreaking when we don't get the positive outcome we hope for. Take care of yourself. Sending lots of love your way xxxx

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So sorry to hear this. Take the best care of yourself that you can xx

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So sorry to hear this Diamonddream, it's always devastating even if you think you know it hasn't worked 😔 A break from it all will probably do you good, it always has for me. Do something nice for yourself and together as a couple, sending hugs xx

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Oh honey I am so so sorry for you..sending oodles of hugs and love..this is just so upsetting..please know that you have so much support on here whenever you need it. Take a break, take a holiday and come back stronger 2nd time around...so much love xxx

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i am so sorry to hear this, wish i could find words of comfort - feel devastated for you.

this is such an unfair and cruel process to go through, i hope you find strength in the days ahead.

you have always been so positive & supportive to us girls - you know we are here when you're ready to come back.

take care of each other 😘😘

sending lots of love xxx

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Sorry to hear that, negatives are rubbish! Look after each other, take some time and plan something nice together for a treat! Take care!xx

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so sorry to here this, take all the time you need, a strong woman will cry, she will then dry her eyes get back up and start fighting again, don't give up on your rainbow 🌈 xx

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I am so sorry Diamonddream...BFN's are gutting because they have such a weight of expectation and hope behind them. I was really sad to read this...we were all routing for you.

Wishing you better (and kinder) days ahead xxx

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So sorry to hear this we got a negative too the other day so know how heart breaking it is.

Look after yourselfs and give yourself lots of treats

Sending hugs x

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My so sorry this is the outcome life can be incredibly cruel, my thoughts are with you. Take care of each other and I hope you manage to find some peace and rest xxx

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Sorry to hear your sad news,

My first cycle failed and it certainly is heartbreaking,

Take care xx

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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Look after yourself xxx

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Big hugs. Plan some nice things for you both xx

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Oh Diamond I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

I think you and your dh are absolutely doing the right thing to take some time out to regroup and heal from this side by side.

In the meantime I'm sending you love, warmth and strength and if you ever want to talk I am here for you.

Big hugs xxx

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Xxx big hugs xxx

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So sorry to read this, thinking of you xx look after yourself xx

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So sorry Hun, big hugs xxxx

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