So today we got our latest BFN on our 5th attempt. I am devastated! We have one frosty left and then our ‘journey’ will come to a close. I have tried to stay positive throughout, but I am really reaching the end of my emotional limit and can’t even imagine another future 2ww 😖😰.
I had a hydrosalpinx and so one tube removed. The other is pretty much completely ruined as well, and they have told me that I have less than 1% chance of falling pregnant naturally with that tube. I also have had a fair amount of endometriosis removed multiple times.
As I have just turned 40, my egg reserves are not high, so I don’t have many to play with each time.
1st IVF- 1x5 day embryo transferred and we had an early miscarriage (no reserves).
2nd IVF- no embryos survived.
3rd IVF- 1x5 day embryo transfer-BFN. 1x6 day embryo frozen.
1st FET- didn’t thaw well, but eventually transferred (after a traumatic 24hr wait!)- BFN
4th IVF- 1x5day embryo transfer with embryo glue- BFN. 1x6day embryo frozen.
Ugh!!! I even considered putting two in this round, but then one wasn’t at the same stage as the first, and the first was obviously the only one in the glue... so I decided to freeze. Now I’m very anxious that again it won’t thaw well and we will lose that final chance. But I was also worried that putting the second one in might affect the first this round.
How do you keep the positivity going? This is such a cruel process and it’s so hard to keep it all together. I know that if the last round doesn’t work I will be grieving... but I am also at the point of just wanting it all to be over. I am so amazed at people who do this for years... you deserve a medal.
Any advice or words of sanity would be so appreciated. Just feeling so disheartened.