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Got my 4th transfer yesterday not sure how am feeling about it

Hi lovely ladies not been on in a bit so hope all are as well as can be ☺ well yesterday I got my 4th transfer and yet again they had to thaw another egg as the 1st thaw didn't go to plan,but just as they were about to the transfer they said this embryo isn't where we want it to be but still OK for transfer which makes me think why use it, now I've got one left the worse one out the rest so making me think that's definitely not making thawing stage next time so heads all confused, ino I shouldn't be think this will be a fail again but when had 3 already it's just wot u expect best way to think but I really can't help it, also as some of us mite no I when down England for nk cell test and come back I've got a very aggressive womb,so yesterday was 1st day of taking me steroids but yet again docs in Scotland well my doctors are against me taking them which just makes me think am I doing right thing, why it all have to be so confusing.baby dust to u all 🍀💖

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Hi lynsey - It sounds like you've had a journey and a half over the past few years! You must be incredibly strong to be going through all of this again. I wanted to wish you the best of luck with this transfer, you absolutely deserve your BFP. Please let us know how you're getting on. Lots of love x x x

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Thank you so much mommabear16 I really hope it's my time it's so draining will keep u updated hope ur well xxxxxx

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Aw hi lynsey 😄 i have been wondering how your getting on. Glad you hear your embie is now on board. Stay positive it may respond far better in your womb. Why are your docs against the steriods? I started mine last sat on day of transfer. No symptoms as yet, just really emotional!! Good luck for your 2ww xxx

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Hiya baby2016 sorry not been on much been thinking about u, yeah they said it could be better in the womb am not 100% sure why there so against the steroids tbh when do u find out babe I pray it's up turn babe so nothing at all then xxxxxx

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No nothing really which I find worrying. My appetite has increased in the last couple of days but think this is more a boredom thing! Wishing you lots of luck xxx

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Am sure it will be all good and you will be sharing good news soon the wait is so annoying isn't it u just keep thinking oh was that a sign or feel different it's like we try to convince ourselves we are then just makes the bad news even worse but we said at the start it's our year so we both will be getting good news hun sends so much love and baby dust xxxxxx

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Aww bless you! ☺️ I was getting symptoms but nothing now 😁 Fingers crossed its baby dust for us all very soon. Hope your feeling ok on the steriods, they have a horrible taste if you don't swollow them quick enough don't they! Lol! Xxx

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Really hope it's your time xxx

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Thank you button-123 I hope ur well xxxxx

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good luck babe x be positive and you will be suprised at the number of people who take the steroids xx

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I was going to text u yesterday let u you hunt but was in and out sleeping alday ino I've heard there is good few people on them and am sure they wouldn't say there safe if wasn't how u feeling doll xxxxx

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Hi Lynsey i just wanted to wish you so much luck and I hope this is your time after so much disappointment & setbacks xx

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Thank you so much georgina 78 it's a long journey to get wot we dream for isn't it well hopefully next week will be sharing good news with u lovely ladies hope everything is well with yourself hun xxxxxx

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It certainly is 😕 Yes fingers crossed you'll be doing that, we'll never forget how lucky we are when we eventually get there will we! So much luck to you xx

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I'm sending so many positive vibes your way lovely ✨✨🍀🍀✨✨

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Thank you maria-louisa very sweet of u xxxxx

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Just wanted to wish you all the best Lynsey, hope you get a good result!x

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Thank you cinderella5 xxxxxx

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