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We're about to start our final FET and the nervousness and anxiety is starting to creep in. I'm excited and hopeful but at the same time I'm petrified of going through another miscarriage and the knowing that we won't get another chance and that this is it.

How do you guys deal with these kinds of feelings xx

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Dolly8

Good luck xx

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Dreams1982 in reply toDolly8

Thank you x

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CLou21

Im personally up and down, one moment Im mega positive thinking this time will work, then I panic and think I don’t want to get my hopes up!

I don’t know if there is a better way to manage these feelings, but I take each day as it comes. I started a diary at the beginning of this “journey” (hate that saying) and it REALLY helps! X

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Dreams1982 in reply toCLou21

Thanks hun, I tried writing but I'm so sporadic with it I just forget x totally get the up an down feeling as that's how I'm feeling too x

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Jen37

I go through all sorts of emotions at any given time. Sometimes I think I'm ok and then something triggers in me like seeing a mother with a baby or even just a cute dog lol! and I feel the tears building up. I don't have any particular advice on how to deal with the emotions as sometimes I try to hide them and other times I just let go. But I just wanted to say good luck with your final try and I'll be keeping everything crossed for you.

I will be starting my final cycle next month too so hoping it works out for the both of us.

xx

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Dreams1982 in reply toJen37

Aww thanks hun xx it's just a really weird feeling this time like everything is riding on what happens xx

Wishing you lots of luck too xx

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