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Feeling nervous. Test date tomorrow

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So tomorrow is test date tomorrow. What an awful anguishing time this 2ww is!?

My lil 5day blastocyst will either of stuck or decided it didn’t want to.

Haven’t had many symptoms sometimes a low like period pain that comes and goes but that’s about it.

This forum has been quite reassuring I haven’t posted that much but reading everyone’s stories it makes you really realise how hard this is for a lot of people and that you’re not alone with the things you are thinking and feeling.

For women who can’t have children we are often left out in society, friends don’t invite you out with their families, people apologise when you say no, after they ask if you have children.

I hope that everyone on here one day, gets the babies that they so long for and feel complete.

What willl be, will be for me tomorrow only time will tell!

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TRYING20167 years ago

I pray the same, we all deserve a chance. I hope its good-news for you tomorrow and well done for holding out! Xxx

NB6107 years ago

Good luck xx

Novice_knitter7 years ago

Good luck for tomorrow ssjcox - you're right - we do all deserve our much wanted babies! I really hope you get some good news

PS - re your comment: 'For women who can’t have children we are often left out in society, friends don’t invite you out with their families, people apologise when you say no, after they ask if you have children.'

I couldn't agree more - I find this one of the hardest things! All my original work friends have babies and invite each other to various things - I hate having to sit on the sidelines just watching. It's really hard to know what to do with yourself. I clicked on a facebook link the other day about 20 Christmas events in London, 18 of them were targeted at families. It's hard being the minority.

Anyway, I digress - really hope it goes well tomorrow and you manage to get some good sleep tonight,

C xx

genten7 years ago

Good luck for tomorrow. Hoping you get your dream. Xx

KEndo167 years ago

I totally understand how you’re feeling. If anything, my 2WW has led me to make a diverse life plan, well, actually two. If I don’t get a positive test result I need to get a new job before my contract ends, invest in my future financially and get started on some life enriching projects like returning to salsa or jive lessons, get fit, get more creative. If it’s a positive then that is all in the air!

• in reply toKEndo167 years ago

Haha, I’ve said I will work harder and get a Porsche if it doesn’t work!

KEndo16• in reply to7 years ago

A Porsche is not a bad alternative plan... Think I could compromise on that and book a on a day driving experience in a Porsche!

• in reply toKEndo167 years ago

It will take a lot of saving but I cut down my hours a few years to get myself less stressed and baby ready but that didn’t work!! So I will go back to working hard again and saving ... 🏎

KEndo16• in reply to7 years ago

That was my plan too! In 2016 I was made redundant and I decided to get the surgery I needed to treat endometriosis and then when I went back to work I took a less demanding job over fewer hours. It has been really good to do that, now I feel stronger and hope to get back into working harder, or at least smarter! Sweet dreams.