Struggling after my best friends news she pregnant

[Lyn84]

My best friend shocked me today by telling me she was 4 months pregnant she said she was scared of upsetting me i phoned her and told her i was happy and excited for her even though she had said it was an accident and wasn't happy about it which she said she felt awful saying considering how badly i wanted one after i got of the phone i cried ive tried to block it out the rest of the day by keeping busy but im struggling 😥

[Scarlett13]

Sorry, that’s really tough to hear, you want to be happy for her but knowing she’s not even happy about it must be horrendous to hear xxx

[Lyn84 in reply to Scarlett13]

Its 3rd person close to me to get pregnant by accident im suppose to see her in a couple of weeks now i feel like cancelling

[Hidden]

That’s really tough. Im sorry to hear you’re in that position. I come across a lot of unwanted/unplanned pregnancies in my work and really struggle with the unfairness of it all. Sending lots of love to you and keeping my fingers crossed your time will come soon. Also it’s okay to cancel if you don’t feel up to seeing your friend. Do what is right for you. You might not be the right person to support her at the moment and that’s okay. You need to make decisions to keep yourself well and okay. X

[Babyjoshua]

So sorry to hear dat but I kno how u feel the same thing happened to me an i didn’t even to see my friend because I jus wondering y not me. Just kno that your time is cumin soon. Sending you lots of prayersand baby dust

[GwinBlue]

This kind of thing always happens to me too; you’re not alone 😍 It’s always a sister in law whose been trying to get pregnant for one month (instead of my nine years) or a friend who never has periods but can have two kids naturally.

Sometimes I avoid them. Sometimes I front it out and pretend I’m ok. Sometimes I do end up ok. Make the decision they feels right for you. Big hugs. xx

[Novice_knitter]

Oh hun -I’ve been through this with a couple of people - it feels like such a slap in the face.

The good thing for me in what you’ve said though is how much your friend cared about your feelings - and although it’s hard to hear - totally the best thing for your friendship that she’s been honest with you & doesn’t lie about being happy.

Doesn’t help your situation though, it’s so hard watching it happen so easily for other people. Wish I could say more to make it better xxx

[hannahding]

I can understand how hard this must be for you. It's very considerate of your friend. However, she would never be able to understand this feeling of struggle. I can very much relate to you. I hope things get better. Just stay positive an strong. Keep trying and never lose hope. Sending baby dust your way.