My best friend told me her exciting news when she was just four weeks pregnant. I am hosting a bbq with our close friends (just the five of us) in a few weeks and she has asked if she can make her announcement to them at it. I am delighted for her and I know she is nervous as it is her first pregnancy. If she hadnt told me about her pregnancy recently, I would have told her about our difficulties TTC. I want to be supportive so I have said that it is a lovely idea but I feel like I'm not being honest by not telling her what we are going through. If I did tell her, I know that she would dampen her excitement to protect my feelings. I am torn. Anybody else experiencing this or any advice??