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... End of the road ... 😥

Kattalex
Kattalex

... as we now have confirmation of a BFN and bleeding has started... time to re-group and re-assess... but most importantly, in the short term view, have a much awaited bath to relax a bit!

It’s unfortunate that it has not worked but I entered this journey because I do t like the word “destroy” of embryos... at least he parishes where he was suppose to be!

All was perfect but no perfect ending! As I also know, a poor quality embryo transfer at day 3 as the last surviving fertilised one can have as good chance of making it as any, hence I now have my 4 year old boy which was a sheep in yesterday’s nativity play...

With this in mind, will enjoy my Christmas and will come back in 2019 stronger than ever and ready to give my last 2 Frosties a chance of making it!

Here is to a better 2019!

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You are so strong and determined. Well done. You know you will get your goal. I am so sorry it has not worked for you this time. Enjoy Christmas and here's to 2019 xx

Kattalex
Kattalex
in reply to Camillage

I think clinics need to rethink the word “destroy”... sounds to negative... after all we been through, will definitely not destroy anything... you never know... maybe the 2 poor quality ones will make it? I will definitely give them a chance 👍

Camillage
Camillage
in reply to Kattalex

Sometimes I really wonder at the language use at the clinics in general. They are medically correct but really don't take into consideration human thoughts and emotions very often x

Kattalex
Kattalex
in reply to Camillage

Exactly! 👍

I'm sorry it's not worked this time and wishing you lots of luck for next time. Merry Christmas to you and your family xx

So sorry xxxx hopefully 2019 will be the year xxxx

Sorry to hear that! Hope you can manage to enjoy our Christmas. Get in that bath for a nice relaxing soak, you deserve it. Hugs, hopefully 2019 will be better for us all.xx

Loving your positivity. Wishing you a merry Christmas and a great new year xx

So sorry to hear this and I feel the same way about my embryos. I would want to give them all a chance and let nature take its course.

You sound very level headed and I'm sure that will stand you in good course for 2019.

Enjoy the holidays and hold onto your son even tighter 😘

Kattalex
Kattalex
in reply to Saya85

Keeping 🤞🤞 for your 2ww... 🥰

Saya85
Saya85
in reply to Kattalex

Thank you! That's very kind and generous of you at this time

I'm humbled by all the sweet ladies on here - we always have each others backs 😊

Take care x

You're so strong, reading your Post has really touched me. I hope 2019 brings you plenty joy and good news. I'm wishing you all the good luck in the world. Have a merry Christmas xx

You learn how to be strong... been doing this for 15 years... what a rollercoaster 🎢

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Sorry it didn't work out for you this time round. I hope you can enjoy your Christmas with your little sheep :-) and come back stronger in the New Year. All the best. xx

Really sorry to read this but so in awe of your attitude, I am sure things will work out for you in the new year. Enjoy that bath xx

2019 is your year honey.everything happening for good reason.keep positivity

2019 is your year honey.everything happening for good reason.keep positivity

Sorry to read that it was a bfn for you 💕 xx

So sorry this wasn't your time, Kat. Really admire your resilience, you'll get there! X

Much love to you x

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