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Hi everyone and thanks in advance for reading.

I had a miscarriage back in mid-July and since then have had quite a bit of mid-cycle bleeding and recently numb arms (I'm going to the GP this week about that). Before the mc I had really regular cycles but my hormones are now all over the place.

I have 8 frozen embryos and am due to start buserelin on 21st Sept but wondering if I should delay until my cycle is more normal. On the one hand, I want to give my body the best chance of success but on the other hand, I know it might take several more months for my body to return to normal. Also I wonder - if the buserelin overrides my hormones anyway, does it matter if my actual hormones are out of whack?

I feel emotionally ready and keen to start the next round but, like I say, want to give myself the best chance.

Does anyone have experience of this? Did you go ahead or wait? Any help would be much appreciated.

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genten

I'm so so sorry to hear of your mc in July.

I've not been in the same situation as you but you do sound ready to me. I would speak to consultant and if they are happy for you to start FET then take it from there.

xx

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Bern2015 in reply to genten

Thank you - it has definitely been a challenging time. It's really hard to speak to the consultant but I might try asking the nurse. X

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genten in reply to Bern2015

Bless you I can only imagine.

Yes I would because as you say, you want to be in the best place before continuing. Xx

Good question! I was advised not to start a new cycle until three months after a m/c but that was supposedly due to it being likely to decrease egg numbers. I’m not sure what the impact on a fet would be but think your clinic would definitely be the best people to advise you x

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Bern2015 in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Thank you, Lizzie. X

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Bern2015. My ladies used to wait 3 months after a miscarriage before embarking on a FET cycle. You will probably be OK to start the buserelin, but do speak to your clinic for advice if worried at all. Good luck! Diane

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Bern2015 in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you, Diane, I appreciate it. X

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LegoBatgirl

Sorry to hear you've been through so much. I hope that your clinic can help and keeping my fingers crossed for you. 8 frosties is amazing and I wish you all the best x

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Bern2015 in reply to LegoBatgirl

Thank you! X

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Caza2009

I haven’t really got any advice but just wanted to wish you the best of luck xxxx

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Bern2015

Thank you - I'm feeling fairly optimistic. Xxx

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