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Cant bloody believe it.... ive got my consultants appointment tomorrow to start my fet..... and just got a message to say my younger cousin is going to be a dad..... i so happy for him but just slightly deflated.... hes 26 and im 32.... been with my fella for nearly 6 years and hes only been with his girlfriend for 2 years...... life ayyyyy!!!

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Oh no - know that feeling....so hard.

I have had the same last week with my sister in law who is about 6 years younger than me....

Sending you hugs and hoping for a positive result for you soon.

Xxx

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He just messaged me to say hes taking a scan pic to my nan..... soul destroying this journey.... im closer to my gran than any of the others and she always says she wants to see me married and have a family before she leaves this world.....and it breaks my heart.... this is a just a kick in the teeth.... ive done well so far as there hasnt been any pregnancies in the family for a few years..... but it just brings me back to reality...... i hope this cycle works please god xx

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That is so painful.

We had the announcement last weekend and tears in everyones eyes!

I feel your pain...so hard when you wanted to share with your gran first.

Fingers firmly crosses for you for this round.

Xxx

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destiny121

Its so horrible but we just have to plod along with hope xx

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Humbugeorge

I had the same with my younger sister on baby number 3 and the last one and this were not planned! Life seems so unfair at times. But our time will come. Try and stay positive, easier said than done I know! X

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Joanna1701

Ah how frustrating! I have been there as well

Sending hugs!

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