Failed pregnancy

[Londongirl84]

So I had my 6 week scan on Sunday and they couldn’t find the sac. My HCG levels are dropping. Looks like the embryo stopped growing. I’m so gutted it didn’t work out this time. It was our first fresh transfer, so I feel lucky we got a positive. It was my first ever positive result. We have been trying for two years. I did have a feeling something was wrong as I tested again at 5 weeks as my symptoms started to decline and the test wasn’t as strong as the first one. Convinced myself I was being silly and put it to the back of my mind. Now waiting for my period to start as it still hasn’t shown.

[Msze]

I’m so sorry ❤️❤️❤️

[Londongirl84 in reply to Msze]

Thank you ❤️ xx

[Hope4another]

I'm so sorry 😞. This happened to me a year ago, it's heart breaking x

[Londongirl84 in reply to Hope4another]

I’m sorry to hear you have experienced the same. Thank you for replying. Xx

[Beatrix_K]

Aw I’m so sorry, hope you have good support around you can lean on. Xx

[Londongirl84 in reply to Beatrix_K]

Thank you. I do but it’s hard with lockdown. As it is for everyone. Xx

[Bernie150781]

Oh no I'm really gutted to read this, we have been going through this at a similar timeframe, I have my scan on Monday but who knows, I know it doesn't help right now but often they say the first one is the warm up. If you like a drink, go and get your favourite and have one for the lack of it over Christmas, spoil yourself and take care, I hope everything goes well for your next go.❤️❤️❤️

[Londongirl84 in reply to Bernie150781]

Thank you Bernie! That’s so sweet. Wish you all the luck for Monday! I hope it goes well! ❤️ I’ll have to wait either Feb or March for my frozen transfer but to be honest I can do with a break. We are also moving house so that’s stressful enough. I will take your advice with the drink! Thank you for your kind words! Xxx

[Bernie150781]

That's great that you have a frosty, mine weren't good enough so I had the two transferred rather than throwing one away that was good enough for transfer. The thought of going through the whole process again is awful, I don't know how some women go through this multiple times, it seems soul destroying, every woman on here I have so much respect for, this is such a tough journey.Enjoy moving home, I can be very exciting as well as stressful and then start a new when you are settled, good luck with everything for the future x x

[Londongirl84 in reply to Bernie150781]

I’m very lucky to have 6 frosties at 4AA grade but the grade they transferred was 4AA so it’s just goes to show it’s not guaranteed. I’m now going to worry they all have something wrong with them. Oh wow so you might be having twins! How exciting. Yeah it’s good you transferred both. They say the one you think is no good, is the one that sticks. I also agree with this forum. I really enjoy reading and following everyone’s journeys and how strong the ladies are. The thought of doing a frozen transfer upset me, so it’s must be so hard to do another round. I have a lot of respect for what everyone has to go through just to have a baby. Xxx

[Bernie150781 in reply to Londongirl84]

I guess there is just no way of knowing and people don't realise the reality of how difficult it is to get pregnant.Do you know what happens next, will you have any tests? X x

[Londongirl84 in reply to Bernie150781]

No tests at this point. It’s just put down to bad luck. Hopefully it is just that! Xx

[Zucci]

So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself xx 🧡

[Londongirl84 in reply to Zucci]

Thank you Zucci. X