It's over

[KatieB84]

I think it's game over for us. 10dp5dt and my AF has come. Spoken to the clinic and the nurse said carry on pessaries as normal till my OTD which is Monday as it can still be positive. Can't see it being positive though. I've had such a good time over the whole process, everything went to plan, no problems along the way. I was actually naive enough to think it had actually worked. Feeling heartbroken and a total failure 💔

[C_L_A_I_R_E]

Do as the nurse says Katie. Here's hoping it's only spotting and eases. Rest up ❤️

[KatieB84 in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E]

Thank you but it's heavier than spotting and bright red. It's not like my usual AF but it's def too heavy. Hubster still thinks I should test on Monday but I'm not sure there is any point xx

[C_L_A_I_R_E in reply to KatieB84]

Still test. You need to confirm for yourself mainly. Surprises do happen -as this forum shows us daily!

[sunshineyellow]

Please do as the nurse says. I needed up getting a BFP (afterwards miscarried) with what I thought was full AF x

[Sunshine09]

Keeping everything crossed for you🤞❤️🌈💋

[Hidden]

Take care. Everything crossed for you x

[sanchia46]

You have to test my dear. Wishing you the best.

[ShellyC]

Sorry to hear you are bleeding. But definitely follow the advice of the nurse and test on OTD. Until then, rest up, look after yourself and cry if you need to. Thinking of you x

[E_05]

So sorry to read this, definitely follow their advice & lots of rest and test on OTD. You just never know, keeping everything crossed for you x

[winston1]

Go for the test dear... fingers crossed....

[ClarabGlasgow]

I am exactly the same. OTD is today & I haven't even bothered to check as I have been brown spotting since Tuesday and it's getting heavier though still brown. I think the pessaries have been keeping it light flow but just want it to properly start now. Got a bfn test on Thursday so I know it hasn't worked. I know how you are feeling, it's pretty devastating & feeling quite sorry for myself. I was feeling positive too, really feel I tried everything & that was probably our only try as it was funded & no frosties even . Take care & I still really hope for you that it will stop before Monday xxx

[KatieB84 in reply to ClarabGlasgow]

Oh I'm sorry to hear this. I did another test today, BFN so it's definitely over. Xx

[ClarabGlasgow]

Hugs, I feel your pain. I have just emailed my Clinic with the outcome and a huge list of questions. Feel they have brushed off my concerns a lot - e.g. my amh level , response to stimms etc. Not sure how you have found it but for me everything prior to egg retrieval felt rushed and insensitive, the nurses were clearly very busy and not much was explained. Easy to want to take it out on someone though when it's bad news. The worst thing for me is other pregnant people at the moment including my sister & SIL. It's unlike me but I am just so jealous of how easy they've had it. I have been researching what I can do next but definitely need a break first. What are your plans? Take care xx

[KatieB84 in reply to ClarabGlasgow]

Oh I'm sorry you haven't had a good experience. I've had a great ride to be honest. Every appointment, scan, blood test has gone right and as it should. I honestly thought I had this in the bag but obviously not. I've rang the clinic so waiting for them to call me tomorrow. We have another go on NHS and we can afford one after that and maybe another but we will see. Xx