Just a quick update, unfortunately it's all over for us. Had our beta result and definately a chemical pregnancy 😪 this was our last funded cycle.
3 rounds of ivf, 8 transfers, 13 embryos put back, 6 fails and 2 chemical pregnancies later and we are still without our miracle.
This has been the toughest yet, we have both cried so many tears. Thankyou to you all for your amazing support I couldn't have got through it without you all.
We have a consultation booked in a couple of months time to discuss everything and talk about private options. It's something to think about tho a lot of saving to do but scared of more heartache.
If anybody has any private clinic recommendations in the UK or abroad with rough prices please drop me a message, keeping our options open. As much as we love our clinic we need to look at what we can afford unfortunately.
I wish all you lovely ladies all the best whatever stage you are at, you are all amazing. Xxx ❤❤
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Ah flossy. I share with you the first time I've ever been able to post a comment wishing someone love and hugs since understanding what this pain feels like. You understand the pain all to well already.
It's cruel. It's mean.
I'm so sorry you find yourself here this week. Love to you both xxx
Oh my god I can't believe this has happened to you. I'm so so sorry- I was so hoping it was your time. I wish there was something that I could say to make it better. Life can be so cruel.
Have you looked into an immune tests? Could you be referred to a miscarriage/ implantation clinic based on the two loses and other unsuccessful IVF attempts? Could the specialist recommend additional medication that might help the pregnancy along? Could the specialist refer you for a hysteroscopy to have a closer look inside your womb and treat any abnormalities? Have you ever had a laparoscopy done to rule endometriosis out?
Last week I had a laparoscopy and fertility consultant found and treated endometriosis from the pouch of Douglas- for nearly 6 years I was told that it was unexplained infertility. My symptoms were secondary infertility, pain with pelvic examinations and several abnormalities in my cycles- painful periods ( two visits to hospital) heavy periods ( to the point where I became anaemic-treated) bleeding and cramping between cycles, bowel changes during periods, chronic pain in lower left abdominal side for 6 months.
I would definitely push for answers- you deserve them.
Oh flossy I'm so sorry, I know what this feels like and am here anytime if you need a chat/rant. I am going to Warwick implantation clinic this month for Uterine NK Cells testing, it costs £540 for two biopsies, may be something worth looking into? Sending lots of love xxxxx
So so sorry Flossy, it's so devastating 😢 This is what happened to me a few weeks ago, you're so elated after seeing those two lines for once, then it's all snatched away only days later. It's not fair and you really have been through it. Take time to get your heads straight then decide your next steps, that's what we're doing although I'm still as confused as I was 3 weeks ago 😕 Hopefully time will make things clearer. Huge hugs lovely xxx
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Has anyone been for a transfer without your partner and any tips to make them feel part of it all? 
Fisft FET - BFN 😭 Need some next steps advice as will be switching the clinic 
It's all over again
It's all over 💔
