It's all over

[Simmokt]

Just had a negative test 13dp5dt. I'm devastated. It feels like we've given up so much to get to this point for nothing. We've got 1 more frozen embryo so I'm trying to hold onto that chance. We've done two egg collection cycles now and only got one PGT-A normal embryo each time, and I'm about to turn 40, so I think this one in the freezer really is our final chance. I feel numb and I don't even know how to start processing this. I was so sure it has worked.

[FrancyItaly]

I’m very sorry to hear that but I really hope and pray your last one is the one! Xxxx

[Orangeflowers]

Really sorry it hasn't worked for you this time. Having tested normal embryos is great though, they have a really good chance. Numbers are low at this age, but to get normals is brilliant. Fingers crossed 🤞 for your next one xx

[Joeysjourney]

Aw babe, I'm so so sorry to read this. I know exactly how you feel, esp being so sure it had worked. What a cruel blow. Take some time and then get the last wee embie inside you. Everything crossed that one works xxx

[Simmokt in reply to Joeysjourney]

Thanks lovely - and good luck to you too xx

[Sexy376]

Hi hun I know how devastating it is I’ve had 6 rounds it’s taken this round the 7th to work I’m 40 too but don’t give up hope stay strong and be kind to yourself xxx

[Simmokt in reply to Sexy376]

Thanks. I don't know how you've had the strength to do 7 rounds. But so glad it's worked for you.

[Sexy376 in reply to Simmokt]

It’s been so so hard and draining this was my last go as we can’t afford to do this anymore it’s been a fortune just hope this one works out well

[Simmokt in reply to Sexy376]

I've got my fingers crossed for you x

[Babyrainbow]

Don't give up hope. It has taken me 4 rounds to get where I am. I had 2 egg retrievals and 3 transfers before with a bfn and 2 mmc. I am 42 and this has finally happened🤞🏼. So the last one could be the one for you.

[Simmokt in reply to Babyrainbow]

Thank you x

[Skittles11]

So sorry to hear this, I understand the complete disappointment and upset especially as you've used a PGT-A tested embryo and felt it had been successful. That's very hard to process. I wish you all the best with your frozen embryo, there is every chance xx

[Lily_82]

I am sorry you feel this way and unfortunately I am in the same position. I have tested negative this morning (2nd cycle 13DPT) even if for the last 2 days had a faint positive line. The quality of the embryo was 5AA and faint positive was giving me a hope that the line will get stronger. We still have 1 frozen embryo also but not as good quality and today nothing makes me feel better yet… Try to treat yourself and fingers crossed for the next transfer 💞

[Hoping20 in reply to Lily_82]

I just read your post on this thread also...so sorry. Today will be a hard day. Look after yourself and give yourself time to heal. You have been through a lot...emotionally and physically. When you feel ready, you can focus on your frozen transfer...keep the hope x

[Hoping20]

So sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately a lot of us ladies on here know the heartbreak of a failed ivf cycle. You need time to process what has happened so put yourselves first and try to take extra care. These first few days are always hard. When you feel ready to do so, you can focus on your frozen embaby which will you give some hope. Take care now x

[Simmokt in reply to Hoping20]

Thank you for being so kind x

[RedPeone]

I’m so sorry Simmokt ive just completed my second round ivf last week and it didn’t work for me too. Feeling pretty numb too and lost. Still processing and not sure about next steps but this forum is helping. If you want to chat, PM me. This forum has made me feel less alone and hope it helps you too. Sending you ❤️

[Izzwhizz]

I’m so sorry too for all of us worrier’s. I had positive result with two strong blue lines on Friday and unfortunately I’ve started heavily bleeding yesterday afternoon (Sunday) it’s our 4th attempt and 3rd time glimpse of hope than miscarriage . I’m lost myself we have two low class embryos left out of 8 Aa & Ab and I’m not sure if it’s even worth it to use them or should I try a fresh cycle and test embryo’s ? Was anyone else in this position? Would you recommend a clinic which test embryo’s or what test would you suggest for me? Thank you xxx

[Hallj10]

I feel your pain. After 4 transfers and 3 miscarriages I also have one frozen embryo left. This is the last chance for meStarting the end of the month. I will not be making any more embryos. Looking at adoption x

[Marley15]

I feel your pain, I got a faint positive then started bleeding heavy tested again a few days later, even though I new it was all over, obviously came back negative, this was my third and final round of IVF, with no more funds this will be it for me. xx

[Staceywacey]

I’m so sorry,take a few days to not even think what’s going to happen next,cry,watch Netflix eat some chocolate & it will all seem better in a few days I promise.I’ve just had my 7th DE failure 😞

You’ve got 1 left what you can transfer soon so just hope that that’s the lucky one.

Take care & be kind to yourself xx

[HollyLI]

It was PGT tested that’s great.. I did 10 egg retrievals.. starting at almost 42… only ever got 1 PGT tested normal embryo (they were all tested..though there were never many eggs) … that 1 and only normal embryo that took 10 rounds to get .only transfer ever did . is my 7 month old daughter… thank god

As it is only 1 good embryo be sure to do era testing not so much for bacteria but for optimal timing of stickiness

[Twiglet2]

I’m so so sorry the negatives are just so hard sometimes 😢 it feels like someone has robbed you! It helps me to take time out for myself and treat myself before focusing on the next try. Sending love 💕 xxx

[Corchi]

Sending you so much love and courage. Pgs tested embryos have such a good chance so hear is praying for your final one. I send prayers and love your way 🙏🏼

[Butterfly83000]

This is not your last chance! I hear that so often and women forget that it's still possible to fall pregnant naturally. I had 3 failed egg collection never made it to fertilization. Low amh 38 and now pregnant with second baby. I think ivf is great but not always the right way for everyone. Just wanna give you hope and tell you it's not your last chance 😉 keep trying, don't give up. Fingers crossed 🤞💞