Well our BFP is no more. Just been for my 7 week scan and although there was a pregnancy sac there looked to be nothing in it. Nothing could be seen, no heartbeat, nothing. We have to go back in a week for another scan to confirm but I know in my heart of hearts it's all over. They told me they think it's a miscarriage waiting to happen.
I am absolutely broken and don't know what to do. It's just so cruel.
Oh dear, it breaks my heart to hear this. I am really sorry for you! Life sometimes is just a unfair bitch that keeps hitting us. Why do people have to go through this? If there was something that I could do to help you, please let me know. I just want you to know that I and probably most of the users around here will always be here for you. Right now your world is falling apart, I can tell that much... I guess I know how it feels, I went through something similar just a while back. It's disgusting, it's sickening, it's unfair and all the worst things ion the world... But you know what it isn't? It is not OVER!! I know it feels like it but believe me dear, it is not so, not even close. Brighter days will come for you. I imagine you have fought hard for this and you aren't getting the reward you deserve, but don't give up! There is a huge, huge chance you'll succeed one day. If you give up now however, it's gonna be over! Try fighting this the hardest you can. Wish you all the happiness in the world, may God bless you and may better days come for you. Stay strong dear, lots of hugs for you xooxooxx
Sending you huge hugs. This happened to me earlier this year after our first round. Got to the scan and the sac was empty. An agonising week later we had it confirmed as a missed miscarriage and I had surgical removal the next day. If you need someone to talk to who's been through it please message me.
Sadly I got my bfn yesterday from our second round but will be going for fet in the new year
Oh god - so very sorry to hear this, it's the worst and I can't imagine how you must be feeling. This is such a cruel and tortuous journey. Take all the support on offer and take time to grieve. This is just so heart breaking sending lots of love and hugs xxxxx
Iβm so sorry. Iβve been there twice in 6 months this year. Itβs the most heartbreaking thing. The only thing that will help you is time. I promise you it will get easier. Just wish we could all speed up the process for each other. Thinking of you xx
hi I just wanted to cast a slight ray of hope on this for you. I went for an early scan at 6+4 after a bleed. sac and yolk but no baby. They prepared us for a loss and we tried to prepare ourselves. Went back at 7+5 and suddenly the baby had come out of hiding and decided to show its face.
I know you now have one of the worst weeks ahead of you as you cry, panic, grieve and get angry but try to relax as much as you can and don't completely give up hope until you know for sure. I wish you all the luck in the world that you get through this week and have the same scenario as us. X
I'm so sorry, this process is horrendous, I'm fearing the worst for my scan too. I hope you feel better in time, be kind to yourself , do all the things you love doing/going/eating. Sending love xxx
Thank you to everyone for all of your kind words and support. It's so overwhelming to see how much support there is on this site.
We were extremely blessed with our beautiful little girl 2 years ago and we are now going to focus all of our energy on her. We desperately wanted to extend our family and only had this one chance to do this as we can't afford to do anymore cycles.
I am so sorry to read your post. This journey can be so very cruel. Thinking of you at this time. It is so very hard and I know our words can not console you but you will see from the replies that many of us are thinking of you.
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