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It's all over 💔

Well our BFP is no more. Just been for my 7 week scan and although there was a pregnancy sac there looked to be nothing in it. Nothing could be seen, no heartbeat, nothing. We have to go back in a week for another scan to confirm but I know in my heart of hearts it's all over. They told me they think it's a miscarriage waiting to happen.

I am absolutely broken and don't know what to do. It's just so cruel.

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I'm so sorry - this is the worst that can happen to anyone... nothing anyone says will be enough to console you I'm sorry... 😪

Sending you prayers and big hug.

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I'm so sorry you are goIng through this. It's so incredibly cruel. Look after yourself. The coming weeks will be hard. Know I am thinking of you. X

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Awww hunnie im so sorry xx

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So so sorry hun. Such a cruel journey this is. Be good to yourself hun and remember we're all here for you. 💗🤗😘

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Oh gosh I'm so sorry you have had this happen. Look after yourself. Take care x

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So sorry. Nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better but we're all here if you want support. Big hug x

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Oh Im really sorry to hear that! You're right it is so cruel. Sending hugs!xx

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So sorry to read this. Heartbreaking but sending lots of hugs as well as everyone else. X

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Heartbreaking.. so sorry to know this..😶

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So so sorry to hear this sending you a big hug x

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So, so sorry to read this x

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Oh dear, it breaks my heart to hear this. I am really sorry for you! Life sometimes is just a unfair bitch that keeps hitting us. Why do people have to go through this? If there was something that I could do to help you, please let me know. I just want you to know that I and probably most of the users around here will always be here for you. Right now your world is falling apart, I can tell that much... I guess I know how it feels, I went through something similar just a while back. It's disgusting, it's sickening, it's unfair and all the worst things ion the world... But you know what it isn't? It is not OVER!! I know it feels like it but believe me dear, it is not so, not even close. Brighter days will come for you. I imagine you have fought hard for this and you aren't getting the reward you deserve, but don't give up! There is a huge, huge chance you'll succeed one day. If you give up now however, it's gonna be over! Try fighting this the hardest you can. Wish you all the happiness in the world, may God bless you and may better days come for you. Stay strong dear, lots of hugs for you xooxooxx

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I'm so sorry. Thinking of you xx

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I'm so sorry to hear this, thinking of you xxx

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Sending you huge hugs. This happened to me earlier this year after our first round. Got to the scan and the sac was empty. An agonising week later we had it confirmed as a missed miscarriage and I had surgical removal the next day. If you need someone to talk to who's been through it please message me.

Sadly I got my bfn yesterday from our second round but will be going for fet in the new year

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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Oh Hun I'm so so sorry. I'm in exactly the same situation as you and it's rubbish. Sending you big hugs xxxxxx

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Oh god - so very sorry to hear this, it's the worst and I can't imagine how you must be feeling. This is such a cruel and tortuous journey. Take all the support on offer and take time to grieve. This is just so heart breaking sending lots of love and hugs xxxxx

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Hiya so sorry you're having to go through this. Its the nightmare we all dread! [Hugs] xxx

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I’m so sorry. I’ve been there twice in 6 months this year. It’s the most heartbreaking thing. The only thing that will help you is time. I promise you it will get easier. Just wish we could all speed up the process for each other. Thinking of you xx

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There are no words to make this any easier. I'm so sorry, take the time you need to grieve xx

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I'm so sorry you are goIng through this. It's so incredibly cruel. Look after yourself. . X

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So sorry 🙁 Xxx

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Oh my goodness, heartbreaking. I know I can't say anything to help but please just know I'm thinking of you. xxx

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So sorry to see this. Thinking of you and sending hugs xx

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hi I just wanted to cast a slight ray of hope on this for you. I went for an early scan at 6+4 after a bleed. sac and yolk but no baby. They prepared us for a loss and we tried to prepare ourselves. Went back at 7+5 and suddenly the baby had come out of hiding and decided to show its face.

I know you now have one of the worst weeks ahead of you as you cry, panic, grieve and get angry but try to relax as much as you can and don't completely give up hope until you know for sure. I wish you all the luck in the world that you get through this week and have the same scenario as us. X

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I'm so sorry, this process is horrendous, I'm fearing the worst for my scan too. I hope you feel better in time, be kind to yourself , do all the things you love doing/going/eating. Sending love xxx

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So so sorry to hear you are going through this. It's just so incredibly unfair. Look after one another xx

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I'm so sorry to hear this Hun. 💔

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So sorry to hear this news. Thinking of you. Xx

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I'm so sorry. Thinking of you xx

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Thank you to everyone for all of your kind words and support. It's so overwhelming to see how much support there is on this site.

We were extremely blessed with our beautiful little girl 2 years ago and we are now going to focus all of our energy on her. We desperately wanted to extend our family and only had this one chance to do this as we can't afford to do anymore cycles.

Thank you again to everyone 💕💕

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Please try and stay positive . This happened to my friend and all was ok xxx

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I’ve got my fingers crossed for you and hoping that it works out for you x

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Heart breaking to hear this keep hope dear🤗

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself, thinking of you xxx

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I’m sorry to read this. X

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Aww completely devastated for you, this is just awful, I am so so sorry hunny sending loads of hugs your way x💔😘💋💋

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that is devastating...im sorry to know about this...xxx i pray for healing ... and that you have more strength to continue the journey...

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I am so very sorry, there are no words. Am thinking of you xxx

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I am so sorry to read your post. This journey can be so very cruel. Thinking of you at this time. It is so very hard and I know our words can not console you but you will see from the replies that many of us are thinking of you.

Take care of yourself

xx

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I’m really sorry to read this 😔, look after yourself xxx

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