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So today I had a scan as I was concerned and they couldn't find a heartbeat. I'm devastated and my husband and I are in bits. I don't think I can go through this again!!

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm so sorry hun. This is such heartbreaking news. Take time to grieve lovely be kind to yourselves 😘💗

I’m so sorry to hear this thinking of you both at this difficult time. Don’t make any rash decisions give yourselves time to grieve and then when you’re ready you can make your decision clearer whatever it may be xxx

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E_05

I’m so sorry to read this, take time to grieve and do what’s best for you. Thinking of you xx

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Crowpingpongg

I've just been through the same as you and had to have my baby removed by D&C and we are heartbroken. I feel your pain both of you. I'm here if you wish to chat privately big hugs xxx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to read this! Look after yourselves.xx

So so sorry to hear this . Me and my partner received the same news last year and we were totally devastated so know what you are both going through . You will get stronger each day Hun .

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Leo2017

I’ve just been through the same thing & had to have surgical management 2 wks ago today!! So so sorry you’re also having to go through this - it really is heartbreaking!! Wishing you lots of love & strength for the coming days!! xx

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Tugsgirl

So so sorry. I feel your pain xx

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lianm8

So sorry lovely. Take time to grieve and in time you may find the strength to go again xx thinking of you xx

I bet you are. I’m so very sorry to hear your news. I had a early miscarriage last year it’s so truly awful. When I had my scan I’d already had bleeding ( not spotting very heavy with huge clots ) so I knew the chance of my baby being ok were very slim. For you it must’ve been have come as a huge shock; to go from everything being ok to suddenly no heart beat; how tragic.

Right now it won’t feel like it but you will find the strength to keep going because it resonates so much within you a desire to have a baby. This will ease with time; I promise. You will never forget but you will learn to live with the grief; right now it seems impossible but it will get better.

It was a terrible outcome but it has shown you that you can conceive; this is still massive progress; that’s how I chose to view our loss.; it somehow gives me hope. my fertility specialist said recently to me “ from the dark cloud the silver lining is you did manage to conceive and this is positive “. I love that statement seeing something good from something so awful 💕 💕💕

Thinking of you and sending lots of virtual hugs 🤗 Be kind to yourselves. Love each other and hold each other you will get through this together 💕💕💕

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Princes14

So sorry for you and your husbands loss Lind16. Take your time to grieve and

hold each other tightly. You’re in my thoughts ❤️

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Poppy16

I am really sorry to read this and feel so sad for you. Just want you to know I'm there for you at this awful time. Thinking about you and your husband. You will get through this. Sending a hug.xo

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Gillyc1

I’m so sorry, it’s absolutely devastating I know. Sending massive hugs your way . Love to you both xxx

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Smang

I’m so sorry for the loss xx

So sorry to read this, look after yourselfs x

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Squeak2

So sorry to read your news, big hugs 💕 xx

So sorry lovely big hugs xxx

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emu2016

Sending so much love x

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Asweetpea

In so sorry.😢

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this hun. Is awful. Went through the same. Take care of u both through this really tough time☺️

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Autumnmoon

So sorry love to you both x

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Lind16

Thankyou for all your kind and loving messages. We are going to go see my parents for a couple of days to get out the house. And I'm probably going to have to have a procedure to remove the miscarriage as I don't think I can deal with the pain. Thankyou for all your support and I wish we could all get our happy ever after xx

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Flimzee

I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking about you xxx

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Sienna2

So sorry to hear your news, it’s such a devastating time. Take each day at a time - I went through this in December so share your pain, if you need any help or advice we are here for you xx

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vic77

so so sorry. my heart is breaking for you xxxxx

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