It's over.... again.

[LillieF]

OTD is Sunday.... but no need to test this cycle has failed. I am full on bleeding today so this is now my 2nd cycle failed at exactly the same stage.

I'm exhausted/drained and just want to lock myself away and cry. Why do we put ourselves through this. I just need to accept I'm not going to have a baby. I wish I was stronger to just move on and accept this fact.

I daren't tell my family I've failed again, they were so positive about it working this time. I know it'll break their hearts just as much as mine.

Sorry to moan on here but can't face reality of my family and friends and telling them yet. X

[Busybee88]

Really sorry to hear your news and cannot imagine how you're feeling right now but this forum is whatever you need it to be, even if that's just for an outpour of hurt and pain.

There are many people on here who have been through the same and are testament to the human ability to pick yourself up and find strength. You'll get there, just give yourself some time x

[Tugsgirl]

So sorry to hear that your cycle hasn't worked. Take some time out.. take care of yourself and don't blame yourself. Do what you need to do to get through this. You're not alone. We all know the struggle. X

[emma-jane-30]

I'm sooo sorry to read your post lovely!! Life is so unfair 😢😢don't apologise for writing on here that's what where all here for, I'm just so sorry it's come to this but i hope that in time you will feel ready to try again. Please try to not give up I've had a couple for friends who it's happened for on the 3rd go, your body has had a lot going on in your 2ww this time round which hasn't made is easy so don't be hard on yourself. Sending you a big hug lovely and just take time for yourself 😘 Xxx

[Laura3101]

Im sorry to hear this but please don't blame yourselve and don't give up hope! My friend had 2 failed cycles and went on to her third and last and had her beautiful baby girl only a few weeks ago. Take some time to process and have some time. Your family I am sure will be there for you & help you through this tough time xx

[MonkAK]

I'm so sorry to hear your news - please don't feel bad for venting. Take some time out to spoil yourself and recover. I hope you find the strength to try again soon. Xx

[ToniBrowne]

I'm sorry to hear your news, but don't give up. Allow yourself time to grieve x

[ShellyC]

I am so sorry to read your post. Things really are unfair sometimes. Take solace in the number of people who have success after further rounds, and in support from this forum, your family and friends. But let yourself grieve, don't feel guilty about feeling sad. Human resilience is an amazing thing, and you will come out the other end. Make sure you take some time to look after you xxxx

[Hidden]

Sending hugs to you .it's not an easy thing to do but don't lose hope .I had a failed cycle in December.so I know the feeling of exhaustion and helplessness.praying for you.rest and heal

[City74]

Really sorry to hear your news - it isn't fair is it? Take care of yourself the best you can and best wishes for whatever you decide for the future. xx

[bfrida]

many hugs for you. don't be upset. you know life is like swing. one day good another bad.

I know how are you feeling right now. we passed the same. we failed 4 cycles of ivf but we don't want to stop. we are looking for another clinic because our last didn't bring us great result.

btw, how is your husband? did he support you? or he didn't know that you failed/? for sure, you should tell your family about all hapened to you. obviously they will support you because they love you

I wish you great luck and success

my fingers crossed