Hi lovely ladies. Hope you're all ok. I said in my last post that I was going to enjoy feeling positive and I did! But as I wrote, I knew I'd have more down days. Unfortunately this is one of them so I apologise in advance for the negative rant.
Why is it that every time I have a bad day I am faced with someone else's happy news?! We're in the middle of selling our house and buying a new one. All through my first IVF cycle (June/July) I was saying to myself, if it's positive we'll be in our new family home, if it's negative, at least I'll have the house to focus on. Well as many of you probably know I had my BFN 3 weeks ago & ive been riding the ups and downs since then. We've had nothing but stress and delays with the house since then and have now found out that our vendors are going on holiday when we're meant to be moving (despite this day being in the diary for weeks) & our buyer is fuming. I'm now terrified she's going to pull out and we're gonna lose the sale.
In amongst all of this stress today, my best friend had her baby boy. I want to feel happy for her, but I'm just so sad. I hate what my fertility struggles and her pregnancy have done to our friendship and I really don't know if it will go back to how things were.
I feel like this struggle has changed who I am. I used to be so happy and confident and fun. Now I just feel like I'm a bitter, jealous and sad b***h who has nothing to say and no joy left.
I want to stop thinking about IVF and TTC but I literally wake up every morning thinking about it. I'm stressing about whether i should change my diet (again) and lose some weight (consultant says I don't need to). I just want to be in the best condition for my FET in a few months, but feel like a diet is just fuelling my obsession with ttc. I'm on summer holidays ATM so have far too much time to myself to think and worry. I am keeping myself as busy as I can and trying to distract myself but it always comes back to this.
I want to stay strong for my husband and remind him that I'm still the girl he married but I can't seem to find her ATM...
Anyway sorry for negative rant. Sure tomorrow will be a better day. I met another friends baby this week and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Will try to stay strong. Wishing you all love and luck on this difficult journey xxx