One of my best friends is due to give birth next month and I am genuinely so happy for her. Her and her hubby were TTC for a year before falling pregnant, during that year we found out we needed IVF and started the whole process.
I can't wait to meet their baby and have lots of cuddles but I'm starting to find it hard how negative they are being. All the way through the pregnancy she has done nothing but moan about feeling rubbish and she has not helped herself by pushing herself with work etc as she does not want to be treated differently just because she is pregnant. I have been asking her all along if she is excited, looking forward to meeting baby and all she says is she is dreading the birth and the first few months. She seems more happy to talk about when she wants to go back to work.
I know everyone has a different experience of TTC and pregnancy but I would literally give anything to be in their position right now. I feel like a bad friend for even thinking that she should be happier as she has known all along what we have been through. Feel like next month is going to be difficult as my cousin is due too. Life is so unfair with so many of us in this horrible position.