MRKH

Hello all

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I didn’t tell anyone about my problems, I thought it’s too personal…but here I can sort of confess. My name is Marie, I’m 38. When I was a teen, my parents always told me I am special…and they were right. Unfortunately, I’m special not in that way I would like to be. My first visit to the gynecologist was at the age of 13 when I was concerned about absence of periods. The diagnosis was simple - Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome, MRKH. I was shocked then depressed. I always dreamt about a big family but I vaginal aplasia means that I will never bear a child.

I still want to have 3 children. I have a high-paid job and some money from my parents, so according to the prices on the internet I can afford a surrogate mother. But the main difficulty is that I don’t have a husband. In many clinics he is a must… I’m dating with a nice guy and I’m waiting for him to make me a proposal. If so, I need to know where to find a surrogate mother in order to make this things go faster. Here, in France, surrogacy isn’t allowed. Which European clinics have great results according to your own opinion? According to their sites they all are the best, but…I’d like to know about a real person experience.

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  • I can recommend you to do a research on ukrainian clinics. I went through surrogacy treatment ovet there and am not disappointed a bit! I am now a mother of a boy of 2!

    I'd say their prices are cheap and services are on high level. Of course, you have to make the decision for yourself, and there is not a perfect clinic in the world. So I would advise you to contact whatever clinic you choose and consult with their manager.

  • Thank you, TeapartyAlice!

    Actually I'm almost decided to go to Ukraine. One of the clinics there is very popular and has great results according to reviews of those who now have children.

    Do you mean any particular clinic? because I read more about biotex and I like its ways of service.

  • Have you searched the forums on fertilityfriends? They have many threads by country for different clinics and a whole section on surrogacy internationally fertilityfriends.co.uk/foru...

    Good luck x

  • Oh my - it's a treasure trove on there. But do use the 'search' box because sometimes it's very hard to find the information you want!

  • Thanks a lot!! I didn't know about it.

    xx

  • hi, sorry for your disease and wish you to be strong, you know I rather recommend you to pay attention to europian clinics, especially in Ukraine. I know that they are provide all with good conditions and cheap prices. If you want you can look at one, called Biotexcom, probably you'll find something for yourself...

    Good luck, hun XXX

  • Thank you a million! I've been thinking about contacting this particular clinic for more than a month when i wasn't even married. Now I have all the nesessary things but i dont know, i'm nervous and can't even email them. i had a chat with a woman here on forum, she was also looking for a clinic but dealing with IVF using DE and she has already been to Kiev and started her treatment..but I'm postponing this everytime. can do nothing with myself :-(

  • Dont be afraid/ sooner or later you'll contact them 'cause you want to have a baby, am I right? yes, i know that to get into this program you have to be married and now you hve all necessary documents, why not/ they all are ver friendly dont be affraid

  • Thank you bfrida, i'll try. By the way, did you opt for surrogacy there or donation? your impressions? maybe you have any useful information? what should i ask if i contact them?

  • hi, i've dan seroius problems with my heart that's why my doc didn't allow me to bear the baby, we opted for a surro but with my eggs and husband's sperm. you know, i was totally satisfied with the service there. nice people doctors and people who cared about us, especially my manager, she 24/7 on the phone. i could asked here whatewer i wanted.

    firsly i was a bit confused at the clinic because she's so tiny but i was wrong, people worked there wery fast.

    ah, yes, if you want to contact them just do it. they will ask you several question.. why do you want to do this, if you have document that can aprove your infertility, married you or no, questions about age

    but i see you unmarried or i don't know something?

  • Oh, so sorry you also need to find someone who willl do it for you.

    You really phoned your manager 24/7? haha, joking. Everything you told sounds nice, they work fast, ready to answer your every question, that means the're ready to help and support.

    Of course I have a document approving that I have no uterus. And I'm married now, that was unexpected but just in time.

    Thank you for the information! Good luck!

  • thant you for that and yes i was calling my manager like 1000 times a day, thank god all people there were friendly

    good luck you too