So I have finally got a answer. It is not a ectopic pregnancy, so that's good in one way. But it is definitely a miscarriage. So I stop my meds and it will happen naturally. Takes two weeks apparantly. And the pain can be very bad. So I have loads of painkillers ready and hot water bottle etc. had another breakdown at the hospital today. But the nurse was fab. And gave us advice and then left us in a room until we were ready to go. Thank you everyone so much for all your support through this very awful. I have very much appreciated it. ️Xxx
So so sorry. Fully understandable that you will breakdown hon. I hope that time helps you both find your feet again. Lots of love and hugs being sent your way. Xx
Hi piglet. This is so sad to hear, and I’m so pleased you had a kind nurse to look after you in the manner you deserve. Be gentle with yourself, and I really hope that all passes without too much discomfort. Gentle, huge hugs from me too. Diane
Oh Piglet, Im in tears for you, im so so sorry for your loss theres no words that can comfort you both right now. My heart goes out to you and your hubby and i hope in time your hearts will mend. You take care and and look after your self my lovely, I know it doesn't really help with the pain of your loss but sending you lots of love a big hugs just so you know were all thinking of you right now and your in our thoughts. XXXXX
Oh piglet - I am so so sorry and you have my condolences. Please email us if you need extra support. Do take care of yourself and rest well. I've been thinking of you. With love xx
I am so incredibly sad and sorry for you piglet. There are just no words. Just have faith that you will come through on the other side, that's all that we can do. Take care dear lady. xxx
Hello Piglet
I'm very sorry to hear that this has happened. I really feel for you. Please look after yourself before and after. Love Tasha xx
So sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourselves, there is nothing anyone can say to take the hurt away just prioritise yourselves for now and give yourself time.
Really sorry to hear about this. It's clearly a very difficult time for you both. Take care and look after yourself. Sending you lots of love x
Thank you everyone. Im not going to lie. This sucks. And I hate it. My bleeding Is getting heavier now and the pain is starting as well. And now everytime I go to the toilet I see blood which was always there but for some reason now its just another reminder that we have lost our much wanted baby. and will last for another two weeks!! So I feel like we will never get over this. I'm feeling so lost, confused, angry, upset, numb. Wow so many emotions. Sorry for essay and moaning.
I'm so sorry Piglet. I know it won't make you feel any better but you are not alone. I went for the surgical procedure last week because I didn't want to risk the natural miscarriage while I was in a meeting at work or with the inlaws staying over Christmas. While physically I'm nearly back to normal I'm still an emotional mess.
You are fully entitled to moan as much as you want. Look after yourself and allow yourself time to grieve. Thinking of you.
You are entitled to counselling from your clinic, and if they do not have something available then you could ask your gp. It could help to have a professional to vent to and try to make sense of your emotions. Attachment and loss take a lot to deal with, don't be scared to ask for help x
Oh Piglet i am so so sorry to hear your news. All my thoughts are with you and your husband. Xxxx
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