Definitely another miscarriage

Went for our scan this morning there’s no growth so we’re booked in for a MVA on Saturday. Has anyone had this procedure your awake when it done sound awful but 🤷🏻‍♀️.

[Orla9298]

Oh I am so sorry lovely. It is so cruel. Look after yourself and take time off work etc if you need it. Xxx

[Kyell2]

I’m so sorry, what an awful start to the year. No advice from me but just wanted to say take care xx

[S-wind]

I’m so sorry, this is what happened to us last year, we opted for medical miscarriage. I wish now tho I’d had a Different option as we’ve not really conceived since. I’m sure you will be fine, and if anything is uncomfortable u can tell them to stop. I hope someone can give u some more information into it.

Hope ur ok lovely 💖💖

[Hidden in reply to S-wind]

What medical did you have the tablets? I sort of had that last time but I’d already passed most of the clots and the tissue and didn’t work but it was fine.

[S-wind in reply to Hidden]

Yeh, well had a pessaire, didn’t do anything at all, so had the tablets, still nothing. When we arrived she said I can have any pain relief I wanted, even morphine 😕 anyway went from that to, “really sorry it hadn’t worked” to leaving with nothing, happened at home a few hours later. Wasn’t pleasant was loosing tissue for a few days, dreaded the scan a week later thought they’d be something left but was all clear. Was 12 weeks, think the baby died at 5,6 weeks. My body never realised xx

[Hidden in reply to S-wind]

Ah right no this is like a d&c but your awake. I’ve had 2 natural and the tablets after tissue was pulled out my cervix but like a said it didn’t work so thinking this way is easier 🥺

[S-wind in reply to Hidden]

Yeh definitely, I hope ur ok lovely, it’s so hard to go through all this.

I hope everything goes ok for you xxxxx

[Saya85]

Oh gosh I'm so sorry to hear this

Was hoping for a miracle for you XX

I don't have any experience of miscarriage procedures....but I suspect I will find out tomorrow I'll need one.

I've been bleeding fairly heavily though and I was only 5 weeks so I don't know if I'll need any meds and it may just pass naturally.

Hope all goes smoothly for you x

[Hidden]

I had medical management tablets and pessaries but didn’t work for a very long time and the pain was so bad I passed out. I would opt for any other option than that. I’m sorry it’s bad news but I’m happy you know where your at now x

[Hidden]

I’ve opted for an MVA where your awake and they suck it out 😕 she said it the most common option and is better than a d&c

[Hidden]

Oh god I am so sorry. No words to help at all. Mine was under general but it’s all pretty quick and physically you should be fine in a day or two - mentally it takes longer. Hugs xx

[runsoncuddles]

I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you have support during this difficult. I'm sending you lots of well wishes xx

[Hidden in reply to runsoncuddles]

Thank you, I’m fine I’ve had a couple of teary moments but I think I’ve become hardened to it. Well unless someone puts me on the spot and makes me feel uncomfortable.

[ALLY81]

Awww so sorry hun xxx

[Hidden]

My goodness I'm so sorry you are going through this, I have no experience but just wanted to say sorry for your loss and wish you a swift as possible recovery. You are amazing. X

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry to hear this, so cruel!💔 No advice but thinking of you!xx

[hannahding]

I am so sorry. I hope you are soon able to recover. I can understand how you must be feeling. It is really heartbreaking. I think the doctor is right. It should be done safely. If you need any support we are all here. Stay strong and brave!

[hifer]

So so sorry you’re going through this. I have only had a D & C. Local anaesthetic wasn’t an option at my hospital so I didn’t have to decide thankfully. Wishing you all the very best and hope it’s over and done with v quickly xx

[TRYING2016]

im so sorry, i hope you have all the support you need and you have us. thinking of you xxxxx