Hello, I am really struggling with symptoms at the moment and I still have no answers so would love some input from others who know what this is like.
I have always had heavy painful periods since day 1, along with bowel and stomach issues. I remember being at school and being sent home because I was physically sick. This all calmed down when I went on the pill at 16. I started having IBS issues in my 20s. After having my second baby 5 years ago I didn't go back on birth control as it just doesn't agree with me and my periods were again, heavy and painful. 3 years ago they started being irregular and I sometimes have spotting in-between. I have also had IBS flare ups in the week before my period, which I seem to be controlling now most of the time, due to changes in diet. However most months from ovulation onwards I have rectal pain, bowel issues, sometimes bleeding, bladder issues, a dull pain in my left side, and what I would say were severe PMS symptoms, cramping, joint pain, sore boobs, anxiety, lower back pain.
I have been back and forwards to the GP for years and finally seen one who was helpful and she suggested this could be Endo and referred me. I have been tested for everything, had an ultrasound, all has came back fine. I even had a colonoscopy where they did find and remove a small polyp, but results from that are normal and I have had rectal bleeding since it was removed. I was at the nurse just today as I feel like I have a UTI, peeing a lot and back pain/lower ab pain but all was clear.
I have seen a gyne who suggested the coil and the pill. I have tried both and neither agreed with me at all. Other than that he wasn't massively helpful, but I am seeing him again in a while.
I am taking supplements and have made lifestyle changes and have kept a diary. I am doing everything I can to help myself. The pain during my period really varies from month to month but the other symptoms don't, the lead up is almost worse sometimes. I feel like I have 1 week of normality if that.
I'm scared about having a lap incase they don't find anything as its such an invasive procedure and I have 2 small children to look after. Would an MRI show any endo?
Any advice would be gratefully received. I don't know anyone who has endo and after searching for answers for 4 years now Im really starting to struggle with what to do next. Thanks!