It's 4am and I can't sleep because I'm in agony, despite all of the ridiculous pain meds I'm on. I had my consultant appointment today and to say I feel let down is an understatement. The woman hadn't even read my history, suggesting I just "need the pill" and "could be pregnant" despite an A&E scan showing a large endometrioma cyst 4 weeks ago (and a false pregnancy test - because obviously, I'm a woman who has sex, I must be irresponsible and pregnant).
My consultant wants the same, painful scan redone because "it has been a while", despite the fact I am sure the cyst has grown because I've gained 2kg in that time, while struggling to eat, and the pain is now radiating towards my belly button.
I posted a while back about my left side pain, I ended up in A&E because of it. I have endometriosis diagnosed, and I guess what I find infuriating the most is I truly believed I might be taken seriously. I have gone 8 years since my last surgery coping and managing and perhaps that's the fatal flaw - I've coped this long, so why now.
Meanwhile I've had another week off work, another week I can't make it to University. I feel chained to my bed and my sofa, foggy from all of the meds and still in agonising pain. I have a good day and then bam, 5 bad ones. I feel utterly hopeless to be honest and really I just needed to write it down, to say it somewhere.
Today I felt as if the consultant thought I was playing up my pain. Despite already having had surgery, and having had endometriosis for 10 years, four weeks ago was the first time I have ever gone to A&E with the pain. I have fainted, been sick, etc all before and that was the first time. Why isn't that enough for them to see? I'm tired of seeing the assumption behind their eyes and hearing it in the tone of their speech that I'm putting this pain on. And what for?! For a sick note that will earn me £50 a week compared to the £300 I would usually earn?! For another invasive surgery that last time involved complications and 4 weeks off of work?!
Sorry, this is a massive rant, probably not what this forum is for at the end of the day. I have some amazing friends around me being so supportive, but I just still feel hopeless and let down by the medical profession and tired of fighting to get the help I need just to be able to live a normal, basic, healthy(ish) life.
Sorry to anyone this might upset, I don't mean to scare anyone just starting on this journey or in likewise circumstances. I just needed to get it out.