Hi I am slightly different in that I am not grieving for another person, but for myself. In one day I suffered a lot of pain, had a massive seizure. Which in turn badly affected my legs and caused lots of issues with my health. I am now struggling with two neuro conditions and reliant on a wheelchair. But no doctor warns you of the incredible loss you feel. I had a career that I worked hard to achieve my role, but had to give up work. I had a social life, but all the people I thought were friends have disappeared and I am now housebound. I lost my independence, just the ability to drive myself anywhere or simply go shopping on my own or walk my dog. There aren't many organisations out there that deal with this type of bereavement, and believe me I've searched. In the end I have managed to be referred to a trauma therapist. So my situation is very different, but I have known loss and can totally empathise with all of you.