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Well just had a nasty facebook message off the ex's sister.......

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whats wrong with these people................

Ive just had a nasty message off the ex's sister on my business facebook page saying ive milked him for as much as I could...........

Any doubt I had has once again been alleviated............

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Just read this, after sending a message to you.

Ignore her. Let them believe their own rubbish. You at the end of the day know the truth. You owe no explaination to them. They are obviously stuck in their own little sad world. His Mum has probably influenced her.

We know what a lovely person you are.

Ignore and hold your head up high. Dont let them grind you down with their nasty messages. You are a lot better them. xxxx

O dear

If you ask me they are annoyed as you are not jumping & the mother did send you a message saying sorry & how dare you ignore her & not accept it , so their anger is back again & yes this just proves , you are right sticking to your guns

I agree , I no you may feel like it ,but believe me if you don't reply , that will hurt more ;-)

Stay strong , you have come along way with this , don't let them get you down

Love

whywhy

xxx

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Anne , you have to smile a little here , just think , if you had carried on , everytime you had a fall out with him , which we do , you would have had the mother sister to deal with as well ....you ask me , you have had a lucky escape here ;-)

xxx

I agree with everything Lou41 has said you've shown me in a short space of time on here what a kind caring person you are. So two fingers up to them an their stupid unwarranted comments :).

thanks everyone..........

Just unbelievable...........

xx

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Anne , my dad is unbelievable with the things he says & like my friend always says to me ...well at least he never fails to disappoint , he is consistent :-D

xxxx

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Yeah I know , Im just absolutely furious.......... only yesterday he text sayin his mother was sorry for texting that message.........

and now this...........

I am soooo glad to be out of it............

It may have been my fault, cos Id posted on twitter 'being single can be fun' thats all........... but it waslinked to my facebook page, id blocked her, but cos it was public which I didnt realise , she saw it.......

Was it really that bad

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I didnt say I was sleeping with a football team......... I was just tryin to be positive........

Is it me?? Be honest, was that bad?? should I not have said that??

All I said was 'being single can be fun...........

No more no less.. just referring to me going to the pics with my mate.......

Hes been out with his mates drinking/.............

Am I not allowed to be happy again then??

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Fuck them mate, what you do is nothing to do with them now xxx sorry to be so blunt. Whywhy always says I call a spade a shovel lol xxx your doing well.

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Love it......... thanks cookie..........

xx

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No Cookie

whywhy says you always call a spade a spade :-D

(((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))

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I know, mines the same lol, oh well I've learnt to ignore it and that pisses him off lol xxx

You have done nothing wrong. There is no need to question what you have written.

Its your status on fb, you can put what you want. Like you say its not that you are saying you have gone out and slept with someone. They are just being childish. Can you not block her from there.. xx

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I had blocked her, but this was my twitter account linked to my business facebook page, I thought that her being blocked meant she couldnt see anything.............. I mean its not like Ive said anthing bad........ maybe a little insensitive but I dont think it warranted that,.... Hes been out drinking with his mates.............

thanks for your reasuring comments

xx

Anne... stop stop stop you are letting them get under your skin and that's what they want. Just proves you were right to get out and stay out of the relationship. Don't start doubting yourself. You more than deserve to have a life now and let's face it you would never have one if you in that relationship as you would be crushed by his family every time something went wrong. Please re-read your positive blogs and don't let them rattle you. Please remember you are beautiful and talented. moving on isnt a crime love eve x

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Ah thanks Eve,,,,,,,,,,,, that means alot........... I always doubt myself............

thank you

xx

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